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ive been able to get away with not buying new swim trunks for awhile but it seems like i have to spend the money and all i can seem to find that i like are board shorts so i was just wondering if you're supposed to wear anything under them and are they acceptable for someone whos 5'10" with a decent build
 

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thats what i thought but i figured as a clothing retard some advice would be useful.
 

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yeah they are fine, but a hell to swim in
 

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Originally posted by JSH
yeah they are fine, but a hell to swim in
so would you reccomend just getting some regular swim trunks that are less expensive anyway?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

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Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well it depends what you want them for, for looking good, these will do fine, for swimming, the less baggy the better.
 
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