"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Blush :-/

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carbani

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Hello,
First of all - English is not my natural language, so sorry for any mistakes I'll make.

I have got a problem - I blush *very* often, without any (known to me) reason. What may I do to stop this? What, except of psychological, reasons are for blushing?

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Carbani
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lt dan

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blood rushes to your face for some reason. if you put ice on your wrists(dont ask me where your gonna get ice when your with a chick) it will stop the blushing. look on a chick magazine site
 
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I blush all the time... it runs in my family. I don't know of anything to do about it, but I've learned to use it to my advantage. Most girls think it's cute, which opens the door for some flirting to start.
 
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Thank you for your answers, I'll check chick magazine site (if I find it).
 
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