"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sosilky

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OK now this guy is saying that if you jump out of a building no matter how high you are if you die you are plugged into the matrix. He says that because of terminal velocity the worst should happen is you break your feet. Then a science teacher in the audience tells him he is wrong. any thoughts?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What the hell does this have to do with seduction? Although, lets just say for argument sake that the matrix is real. Wouldn't the BEST WAY to convince people that it wasn't real would be to make three blockbuster hits about itself? Thats what they did with vampires.
 

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He's only saying it because you haven't found out for yourself you've been socially conditioned to think that it does, and he goes on to say that social condition is good in a lot of ways.

Listen to it again, and you'll understand.
 

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NOOOO vampires were never real, werewolves just made up that fable to get the heat off there back and continue to conquer the world one bite at a time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Try it and then write us a field report. If you don't we'll just assume your friend is right.
 

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j0n024 said:
NOOOO vampires were never real, werewolves just made up that fable to get the heat off there back and continue to conquer the world one bite at a time.
Yeah your probably right.
 

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he is saying that you don't know if you will hurt yourself because you've never done it. Your relying on 2nd hand information.
 

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Please don't tell me you are going to make a thread for every single disk. If all your going to do is criticize then just stop watching it.
 

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sosilky said:
OK now this guy is saying that if you jump out of a building no matter how high you are if you die you are plugged into the matrix. He says that because of terminal velocity the worst should happen is you break your feet. Then a science teacher in the audience tells him he is wrong. any thoughts?
you totally missed the point of that bit, which is fine because he didn't do a good job getting that point across

he's trying to show the difference between primary and secondary learning. how most of what we learn in life is NOT through our own experiences and because of that, is suceptible to social conditioning and all the errors that come with social conditioning. think of how that applies to your views on dating and on what you think women want

and whatever you do, don't jump off a building
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lol

He is just showing us how social conditioning works and that it isn't all bad through giving us an example. Perhaps he is also showing us how easily it is to condition people through second hand experiance.

Is this worthy of a thread..?
 

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Maxtro said:
Please don't tell me you are going to make a thread for every single disk. If all your going to do is criticize then just stop watching it.
relax its called critical thinking

ready123 said:
you totally missed the point of that bit, which is fine because he didn't do a good job getting that point across

he's trying to show the difference between primary and secondary learning. how most of what we learn in life is NOT through our own experiences and because of that, is suceptible to social conditioning and all the errors that come with social conditioning. think of how that applies to your views on dating and on what you think women want

and whatever you do, don't jump off a building
Thank you

SinJester said:
lol

He is just showing us how social conditioning works and that it isn't all bad through giving us an example. Perhaps he is also showing us how easily it is to condition people through second hand experiance.

Is this worthy of a thread..?
I don't know.. looks like it seemed worthy of your response
 

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It's funny how people always knock guru's. If you do not have anything better than tyler has to offer than stop hating.
 

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Birdem said:
It's funny how people always knock guru's. If you do not have anything better than tyler has to offer than stop hating.
that sounds just like when tyler says.."well show me what you can do with a guy in three days who can't get laid" fine i'm sure you do a good job but that doesn't mean I shouldn't question some of your statements. the point of him jumping out of a window is to not accept everything handed to you second hand. so don't tell me to act like a sheep becaue he is a guru when the whole point he is trying to make is not to. You make it sound as if i shouldn't question authority. you would have been a great soldier for hitler.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sosilky said:
You make it sound as if i shouldn't question authority.
Which is basically the opposite of the point Tyler was trying to make.

Are you ChiliPalmer on rsdnation by the way? I thought this was funny:

Might want to look at "Aspergers Syndrome" on wikipedia.

Not being able to grasp the understading of metaphors after several instances of explanation is a symptom.

It's a form of autism.
 
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