naes420
Don Juan
Im just curious how and why some of you are forced into blue collar jobs? Failed dreams? Not enough money for college? Choice? Laziness?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Perfect example of what I'm wanting to hear! Thank man.I.A.F.Y.B. said:I work for a goverment job landscaping parks in my city. It's a blue collar job but, I make 20 dollars an hour. I hated school and never went to college. I'm happy with my job and the income I make. I'm still young; in my early twenties so I got time to make other choices.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
EXACTLY....if you open up your own business, you can make a ton of money and also youre an ENTREPRENEUR, If you work for someone else...sure you get a nice cubicle or office and dress up in a suit everyday and have a nice title to impress the people around you...but working to make someone else rich and to have uncle sam dip his hand in a big chunk of your pay isnt for everyone. Not everybody wants to be a puppet controlled by the man and uncle sams.Bible_Belt said:The average starting salary from my law school is $40,000/yr...if you can even find a job. Some people I know passed the bar last July and are still jobless.
By comparison, I once looked at aircraft mechanic school in Florida. After an 18 month program, you get a job making $40k/yr. And unlike the seven-year law degree, you can actually get a job.
So white collar is not always wealthier. Also, in any blue-collar trade, if you learn it well and can later open your own business offering that service, there is no limit to your income potential.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah you could climb the corporate ladder...but how long will it take to get to the top?...decades even if youre good enough to make it that far. Start your own business and you ARE on top and your income all depends on how you produce.BoredDude said:Who says a person working a white collar job won't walk out some day and start their own business? And if a person is truly smart they will climb the corporate ladder quickly and might eventually become the "man" themselves. Although I do agree that a person working a blue collar job could start their own business I don't see too many now a days. Maybe this is because we tell everyone college is necessary for success I don't know.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.