"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Blowing it Again

FLstud83

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So I'm realizing now that I've blown all my chances with the girls I've met recently, both in person and on myspace. The 35 year old woman I screwed a few weeks ago is always too busy and apparently not interested anymore so I deleted her along with a few other girls who became ignorant and wouldn't read my messages or respond. I feel like I just sabotage everything and I'm condemned to not only be alone but also to be horrible sex-wise. I'm pretty nicely endowed but it doesn't matter because when you only get one or two times of hanging out and ****ing and it only happens once every several months, it doesn't do any justice or good. The only people remaining on my friends list that I don't know are two girls, one whom I just added and the other I've probably already screwed up with anyway although she was gorgeous and seemed interested in me at first.

It always baffles me why these girls/women are so impossible and how I blow it with every single ****ing one of them. I think I'm a pretty charming guy (not the most charismatic but charming), attractive, have good qualities, and talk well but for some reason everything fizzles out. I have the animal instinct and if a girl is interested at all, I have a seductive way about me. It's just that I can't keep any of them interested for more than two fleeting seconds and I'm getting awfully frustrated. I feel like there must be something different about me in a bad way that is a chick-repellant as much as that uniqueness is initially attractive. I keep meeting chicks in person/adding them to myspace but soon they disappear because they stop talking/or I get fed up and delete them. I know I may not have the looks of Brad Pitt or all the money in the world but I sure as hell should be getting more poon than this. Can someone provide me with some insight on this? Maybe look at my page and tell me what they think....my young life is going down the drain along with my enthusiasm for even meeting more women. This is an S.O.S. 'cause I'm starting to feel S.O.L. Has anyone here endured this feeling that somehow things just aren't ever meant to work out?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mavrick

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How do I impress a girl?

If your aim is to impress a girl or win her approval, you will never impress her.

Strange, I know. But the best way to impress a girl is to treat her as if YOU are the one that needs to be impressed rather than her. You need to treat her as if she's trying to get YOUR approval instead of YOU trying to get HERS. I know this seems like the complete opposite to what most newbies are taught from their parents or society, but if you want to "impress" a girl, you need to stop trying to impress HER, but start treating HER as if SHE need to impress YOU.

Most commonly asked newbie questions answered right here! Craig Reeves


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FLstud83

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yeah, another thing about me I think that may be a problem is that I'm not the always the most subtle and may be too complimentary. I'm not very good when it comes to being manipulative and don't use a lot of ****y and funny as far as neg hits....I'm not the wittiest person when it comes to busting on a girl. My use of ****y and funny is more like comparing myself to celebrities and that kind of thing so my use of teasing is pretty mild. I'm more direct and genuine about things I suppose but I'm good at using my sensual voice to great effect. I just fear I'm too transparent sometimes and don't leave enough to the imagination. I think I get girls interested pretty well but their interest isn't always that high and if it is, it isn't high interest for very long. When I send messages on myspace, I'm pretty simple and direct and although I'm a fairly creative person who likes to write lyrics/poems, I'm not always that verbally witty when it comes to using some of the teasing humor that is prevalent on this site. Could this be part of my problem?
 

Brians_600rr

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I get the feeling that u are REALLY needy...

Needy = Creepy = NO CHICAS!!

chill out a lil... lay back... and take it easy on the compliments.. a couple are alright but it sounds like ur overdoing it.

and like maverick said stop trying to impress girls.. make them qualify 4 u.

U R THE PRIZE!! remember that

good luck bro
 
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