"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Blow Jobs and Flavored Condoms

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Bud_Fox

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Has anyone here received a Blow Job from a chick while wearing a condom? Last night I got a BJ from this girl I just started dating while I was wearing a condom. Although it didnt feel as good as not wearing a condom, it was still pretty good.

She didn't mind either becasue there was no mess after, but she kinda complained about the taste of the regular condom.

So my questions are:
1. Has anyone here received a BJ while wearing a condom? What were your thoughts?

2. Are flavored comdoms better for Oral Sex that regular condoms? I guess she would probally enjoy it more if I wore a flavored condom next time she gives me a blow job?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AKA FLEX

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I can't imagine even being able to come during oral sex if I was wearing a condom. Condoms are for when you stick it in one of her other two holes, not for when she's polishing your wand.
 

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I used to see this girl who would only ever **** me in the dark, she made me turn the lights off everytime we had sex.
Anyway she was going down on me, one time, when she stopped and said, "02hero, this flavoured condom you have on, is it cheese & onion flavour?" Which came as quite a surprise to me, as I wasn't wearing one at the time.......
 

amoka

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02hero said:
I used to see this girl who would only ever **** me in the dark, she made me turn the lights off everytime we had sex.
Anyway she was going down on me, one time, when she stopped and said, "02hero, this flavoured condom you have on, is it cheese & onion flavour?" Which came as quite a surprise to me, as I wasn't wearing one at the time.......
wow :crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bud_Fox

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If it wasn't for Blow-Jobs I don't know why people would use flavored condoms in the first place?
 

PrinceKong

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02hero said:
Anyway she was going down on me, one time, when she stopped and said, "02hero, this flavoured condom you have on, is it cheese & onion flavour?" Which came as quite a surprise to me, as I wasn't wearing one at the time.......
That is disgusting :nervous:
 

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BJ without a condom is of course much better. But if you have to...my experience with flavor condom is that they are too thick and have less sensation. I use beyond 7.
 

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When you're dating multiple girls at one time, it is better to be safe than sorry.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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