"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Blow Her Off?

Jonblood

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I made plans earlier in the week to hang out with this girl, and we ended up going out to a party last night. We hooked up, good times and I drunkenly asked her out to dinner, tomorrow, which is today lol. She agreed

What's the best way to go about this?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jonblood

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In hindsight 'blow her off' was a terrible title, i don't want to blow her off. I just rescheduled with her for later in the week, kept it short and ill hit her up to make plans in a few days.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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Grow some balls already. She's interested in you NOW and won't be in a month unless you keep it moving forward. Take her where you want to go for a meal,couple drinks and back home[YOURS].
 

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sodbuster said:
Grow some balls already. She's interested in you NOW and won't be in a month unless you keep it moving forward. Take her where you want to go for a meal,couple drinks and back home[YOURS].
Well said! Seafood always good.........
 

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Wow... obviously she is hungry for more, why you rescheduled was never made clear but you had an obvious chance to have her again today... i'm sure she's wondering why you rescheduled tho, which could create tension which it sounded like was your goal.. good luck playa, play on.
 

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The night that we hooked up it seemed like she was flirting with my roommate while her and I were hooking up, holding hands(lol), etc. Now they are writing on each other's facebook. From what I've learned through this site, I won't mention it, wont comment on any of it, just be indifferent to the whole thing.
 
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