"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lhemmix

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I think that everyone who is in good health should take time and give blood. You could give a maximum of 500cc every six months.Me, I have donated twice already.

A lot of good things can be derived from giving blood, namely:
1. A free physical check-up. Before you can donate, you would be thoroughly checked if you are physically fit to give blood.

2. It's like an oil change, where old blood from your system is taken out. Your body will generate fresh new blood cells over time.

3. It is morally uplifting, knowing that you have done a noble thing, helping out other people who are in need. It's the way of the Don Juan.

Just be sure to drink a lot of fluids after you have donated some blood. Juices are better. Beer is a diuretic, so it is better to stay away from it for a while.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I tried to give blood once, apparently i'm not allowed to because i lived in England in the wrong time-frame. Theres a posibility i may have mad-cow disease hah! :crazy:

What blood type are you by the way L.
 

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Originally posted by Lhemmix


2. It's like an oil change, where old blood from your system is taken out. Your body will generate fresh new blood cells over time.


There are no personal health benefits from donating your blood. Your body constantly recycles red blood cells.

It is good for society tho.
 

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My blood type is O+.
Very dark in color.

I used to donate blood to my ex-gf's father. Her dad had been on dialysis for a year and needs blood occassionally since his kidneys would not make any red blood cells anymore.
 

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I've never donated blood (I will eventually), but I do get nosebleeds fairly often. And for some reason I always feel better (happier, clearer thinking, energetic) after having a ~5 minute nosebleed. No idea why.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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