"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I seem to be on a streak where I get the girl at the bar to like me, get her girlfriend to like me (with the help of a wing), start making out with a target by the end, yet when I offer the target and her friend to go somewhere else (aka my place :p), the target says that she is completely fine with it as long as her friend doesn't object. You guessed it, her friend ends up saying that they have plans early the next day and should head home. This has happened 3 times in the last 2 weeks, and I'm starting to wonder if there is something me and my wing are doing wrong.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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My guess is that your target's friend is not attracted to your wing, at least not enough to sleep with him that night. But that is just my guess there could be an array of reasons that maybe one of us could only point out if we saw the actual interaction.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Why don't you just number close and setup a date later?
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Why don't you just number close and setup a date later?
Because all I want is a one night stand, dates waste time
 

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R3N3G4D3 said:
Because all I want is a one night stand, dates waste time
Wow... Dude...

Seriously
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Maybe you are totally not interested in any type of relationship with anybody, but just because you go on a date doesn't mean you are tied down to that girl. I may not have the mpst or the best experience, but if you are willing to have a date here and there with these girls, I am sure you are going to have sex with some of them on the 1st, 2nd, or 3rd dates. Plus you might genuinely have a good time with some of them even if you just choose to have sex and then forget them.

Not every single girl is down for one night stands, and if she is, chances are you aren't the first person she has slept with from that bar or club.
 

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Great advice by Joe and Play. Use both!
 

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R3N3G4D3 said:
Because all I want is a one night stand, dates waste time
Wow...outside influences help decision making...so thats what im gonna do. Get her number, give her a call a few days later and GO GET A DRINK. Or go out with her the next weekend with her and have your ONS then. The more flexible you are, the more breezies you can rail.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Wow...outside influences help decision making...so thats what im gonna do. Get her number, give her a call a few days later and GO GET A DRINK. Or go out with her the next weekend with her and have your ONS then. The more flexible you are, the more breezies you can rail.
:crackup: I ain't heard no 1 say that word in awhile.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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R3N3G4D3 said:
I seem to be on a streak where I get the girl at the bar to like me, get her girlfriend to like me (with the help of a wing), start making out with a target by the end, yet when I offer the target and her friend to go somewhere else (aka my place :p), the target says that she is completely fine with it as long as her friend doesn't object. You guessed it, her friend ends up saying that they have plans early the next day and should head home. This has happened 3 times in the last 2 weeks, and I'm starting to wonder if there is something me and my wing are doing wrong.
If you just want sex from her and no dating, you have to get in nice with the friend. It doesn't matter how weak of knees the target gets, if the friend says no, you're done.
 

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Thanks for the advice guys, I guess my error was that I was expecting my wing to take care of the friend, and therefore didn't provide enough attention to her myself.
 
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