"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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I'm always working on myself. I will never be perfect. The advice I gave is harsh but it is the truth.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jon09

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All here know dating is numbers game and all girls today are on ****y facebook, there is no girl who dont have fb account... those who say they dont have are lying.

Lets say you send friend request to 100 girls.... and lets say 20 girls of them who are "open" accept. And from that 20 lest say you are cool & sympatic to 6 girls. And from that you menage to set dates with 2 or 3.
Thats would be ok ?

BUT there is problem ... Facebook won't let you send 100 requests like it did before... now they give you warning and block you after 15 - 20 requests... Pitty:( if there is some hack or bot tool so we can send more requests without facebook blocking accont that would be nice
 

Cowboy1015

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If you really don't have some balls to look for girls offline, how about meetup.com instead of facebook? Facebook is not a dating site. It maybe possible if you find a friend of a friend. But 'cmon... it's kinda pathetic when you add random people who doesn't know you... and that's how girls there will see you. Try meetup.com instead.
 

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First i am not saying i do ONLY FACEBOOK online shyt it is only 1 way to find new dates! I also now do other social things in new city.

Second it has its adventages that facebook is not dating site - it doenst have that stigma attached wich girls dont love , they think looking for boyfriend on dating site is pathethic and only ugly girls do that..

If any normal looking girl is on dating site it is because of her ego - to get 200 mails per hour with guys saying all WoNdeFool things about how sexy and beautifull she is and How they would fck her in 100 dif positions.. aw

"it's kinda pathetic when you add random people who doesn't know you on fb"
If she thinks that she wont even add you as a friend and who cares. Those who accept you at least you know are "open to meet someone new"

And you can say also that walking on the streets and asking random girls "hey hi.. are you single??" they will also thing "who is this pathetic moron" but who cares ...ohh yes we are pathetic:p

and about meetup.com its grait site but unfortunatly not a single thing from my country ... i am not from US
 

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Jon09 said:
And you can say also that walking on the streets and asking random girls "hey hi.. are you single??" they will also thing "who is this pathetic moron" but who cares ...ohh yes we are pathetic:p

and about meetup.com its grait site but unfortunatly not a single thing from my country ... i am not from US
Wow, so you think what you're doing is so much better than trying to go on the streets and meet women directly and be upfront to them? Do you know how ballsy you have to be to pull it off? DON'T try to say that you will get more women with facebook than with street game. Right now facebook is just getting you blocked.
P.S. Learn some English
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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xdreamz

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just go out into real life and add them on facebook then. simple.
 

Chickfight

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Bro, stop being a loser. If you add a 100 random stranger girls you won't get 20 accepts, you'll get maybe 2 and they'll delete you once they realize they don't know who the f you are and what line are you gonna use to ask them out? "Oh no you don't know me, I just add random attractive girls on facebook and hope they accept so I can ask them out. So when are you free?". Stop being so pathetic.
 
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