"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jon09

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Sooo i made another account on facebook to try fiding girls in my new city, since i dont know people here, and SINCE all girls are on facebook today and only few are on "dating sites".

I set profile with few fake friends, added my cool photos.... BUT facebook now is blocking anyone who is sending frineds requests to unknown people and having too much pending or ignored requests by others....

so adding random girls on facebook has become almost imposible

Is there any way to add random girls on facebook and not to be blocked? Any trick or software ?:p

maybe i should "poke" girls and then add only those who return "poking" but... that sound lame

Anyone have same problem?

and i know online is not popular is this forum but too many frineds i know meet their dates on facebook ...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SandHawk

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Man the f*ck up and start approaching girls outside. Drag yourself from your cave(let me guess: You keep the curtains closed around the clock, prefer artificial light and you'll instantly burn when exposed to sun?).

If you want to meet new people, you will have to GO OUTSIDE. Outside is beyond your frontdoor, and in this strange new world magical things happen. Instead of poking a girl and waiting for them to poke back before you talk to them, you make some eye contact and when they notice you, you say hi. From there on, you'll start a conversation.

It's less annoying, more fun and even better: You get to talk to people.

This site is about learning to deal with chicks in real life, not about finding girls on the most creepy and pathetic way. We try to live by a rule that we are focusing on being better men, and we do that by pushing our own limits further and further. Are you shy? Scroll all the way to the bottom and click the DJ Bible link. Read the DJ bible and the Book of Pook, and you're set.
 

Htienvu

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SandHawk said:
Man the f*ck up and start approaching girls outside. Drag yourself from your cave(let me guess: You keep the curtains closed around the clock, prefer artificial light and you'll instantly burn when exposed to sun?).

If you want to meet new people, you will have to GO OUTSIDE. Outside is beyond your frontdoor, and in this strange new world magical things happen. Instead of poking a girl and waiting for them to poke back before you talk to them, you make some eye contact and when they notice you, you say hi. From there on, you'll start a conversation.

It's less annoying, more fun and even better: You get to talk to people.

This site is about learning to deal with chicks in real life, not about finding girls on the most creepy and pathetic way. We try to live by a rule that we are focusing on being better men, and we do that by pushing our own limits further and further. Are you shy? Scroll all the way to the bottom and click the DJ Bible link. Read the DJ bible and the Book of Pook, and you're set.
Thanks mate, makes me wanna get out there and approach more people.
 

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Grow some balls and don't be a nerd. You get girls by going out and getting what you want. Not on the internet.
 

goldengoose

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Grow some balls and don't be a nerd. You get girls by going out and getting what you want. Not on the internet.

don't be so harsh. maybe the guy can't and is doing what he can.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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kentgraham10

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goldengoose said:
don't be so harsh. maybe the guy can't and is doing what he can.
I hate to say it but that's just not going to cut it when there are other people such as the DJ's on this site going out in public and building REAL chemistry with the people he is trying to talk to via the internet. That's why I am doing DJ boot camp, to become one of these people. I just hope for his sake the OP does the same.
 

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kentgraham10 said:
I hate to say it but that's just not going to cut it when there are other people such as the DJ's on this site going out in public and building REAL chemistry with the people he is trying to talk to via the internet. That's why I am doing DJ boot camp, to become one of these people. I just hope for his sake the OP does the same.
i know that but at least the guy is trying and you shouldn't knock a guy for that. I don't agree with his method but thats how he does it. he needs confidence first so he should do what he can do until he can go out and meet women.
 

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goldengoose said:
i know that but at least the guy is trying and you shouldn't knock a guy for that. I don't agree with his method but thats how he does it. he needs confidence first so he should do what he can do until he can go out and meet women.
Fair point, got to start somewhere with this stuff. If he puts himself out there with enough girls I'm sure SOMETHING will come out of it
 

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kentgraham10 said:
Fair point, got to start somewhere with this stuff. If he puts himself out there with enough girls I'm sure SOMETHING will come out of it

then again it may not if he gets blocked on there or the women on there don't find him attractive enough or interesting enough. guys use dating sites and social network as a crutch cause of fear or rejection in face to face situations. maybe if he gets the confidence from talking to women online and meeting up with them. he can do it in real situations in public.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jon09 said:
Sooo i made another account on facebook to try fiding girls in my new city, since i dont know people here, and SINCE all girls are on facebook today and only few are on "dating sites".

I set profile with few fake friends, added my cool photos.... BUT facebook now is blocking anyone who is sending frineds requests to unknown people and having too much pending or ignored requests by others....

so adding random girls on facebook has become almost imposible

Is there any way to add random girls on facebook and not to be blocked? Any trick or software ?:p

maybe i should "poke" girls and then add only those who return "poking" but... that sound lame

Anyone have same problem?

and i know online is not popular is this forum but too many frineds i know meet their dates on facebook ...
haha even facebook, who brought us such awesome things like the "poke", thinks you're a creepy loser.
 

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haha even facebook, who brought us such awesome things like the "poke", thinks you're a creepy loser.

haha and the adding of fake friends is even worse lol
 

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Ok, why would you make a facebook page with fake friends in the first place? That's just creepy dude.

Just go talk to girls you see around and find attractive. Being a MAN is what makes the girl attracted to you. Even when I number close a girl, I never do the facebook thing with them unless they add me or something.
 

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Ok, why would you make a facebook page with fake friends in the first place? That's just creepy dude.

Just go talk to girls you see around and find attractive. Being a MAN is what makes the girl attracted to you. Even when I number close a girl, I never do the facebook thing with them unless they add me or something.
maybe he doesn't have any real friends or know any real women in real life so he tries through the internet. i don't agree with his method but at least he is trying.
 

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Quit defending him, We know what twe are talking about and hopefully he will listen.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Interesting how many people found girlfriends and even wifes online, and online dating is and will stay to be popular in comming years But on this forum, which is about dating, you cant even start topic about online dating without being called ***** etc.

Ofc you shouldnt only relay on internet.... but do 2 or 3 paralel things at same time to get dates.

But here you can read same copy paste answers which i knew i will get when i posted this therad "Grow some balls" .... "don't be a nerd" ... etc ... pitty
 

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So you try to make things simple by increasing the number of factors and work behind your plan?

Any rejection would be less annoying than what you're doing,you're like a guy who doesnt wanna do his homeworks so get 3 jobs to pay someone who does them for him.
 

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Jon09 said:
Interesting how many people found girlfriends and even wifes online, and online dating is and will stay to be popular in comming years But on this forum, which is about dating, you cant even start topic about online dating without being called ***** etc.

Ofc you shouldnt only relay on internet.... but do 2 or 3 paralel things at same time to get dates.

But here you can read same copy paste answers which i knew i will get when i posted this therad "Grow some balls" .... "don't be a nerd" ... etc ... pitty
Dude. You're not talking about a dating site. You're talking about Facebook.

I don't hate on dudes for joining dating sites. But Facebook isn't a place for that. Sure, it happens. But it's not a common thing.

At least when you're on a dating site, you KNOW the girl is open to the idea of online dating. On Facebook, that isn't the case.

And the fact that you're adding fake friends and sh*t like that....come on. You gotta know that this is a dumb idea. If you gotta go through measures like this just to TRY to get laid, then you're not working on yourself enough.
 

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Quit defending him, We know what twe are talking about and hopefully he will listen.

And this coming from a guy who admits to being an AFC. Who lives with his girlfriend. Who said he hasn't been laid since January. :rolleyes:

you knock other guys here and say stuff to them when you already have your own serious flaws. :nono:

at least this guy is trying to get women and is trying to get laid. you can't even get laid by your own girlfriend that you live with. :eek:

that is very sad :rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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