PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
I'm always working on myself. I will never be perfect. The advice I gave is harsh but it is the truth.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Wow, so you think what you're doing is so much better than trying to go on the streets and meet women directly and be upfront to them? Do you know how ballsy you have to be to pull it off? DON'T try to say that you will get more women with facebook than with street game. Right now facebook is just getting you blocked.Jon09 said:And you can say also that walking on the streets and asking random girls "hey hi.. are you single??" they will also thing "who is this pathetic moron" but who cares ...ohh yes we are pathetic
and about meetup.com its grait site but unfortunatly not a single thing from my country ... i am not from US
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.