"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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BLING BLING, get some jewellery!!!

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Now i don't mean plastic 2$ shop stuff, go to a real jeweller with real stuff (gold, silver, woteva), i personely like silver & white gold (they look betta on me).

I bet now you got ur'self thinking, "but this stuff costs$$$$$", OK fair anough, but then reframe to the last time you bought ur'self a pair of shoes??? 100$ mybe, jeans??? 40$ mybe, shirt??? 30$, weman??? PRICELESS! lol

The point is main necessity’s, as listed above, is at about the same expence, but you don't think about it because it's subconscious (kinda), & in the end jewellery will be the betta investment because no wear n' tear is involved, CHA CHING!!!

To make it dead straight for you:
>1*watch - price range 80$ - over the moon
>1*bracelet - price range 40$ - over the moon
>1*ring - price range 30$ - over the moon
>1*necklace - price range 30$ - over the moon
Prices will vary depending on your taste.
You can buy as much as what eva the hell you can afford, this is just a simple outline.

Now, 'jewellry sales people' know their stuff, take advantage of this, ask queations, get educated, but don't buy in to their tricks too somthing you can't afford (this happends, it's their job).

When you go around shopping (in jewellry shops that is), you will reckognise the abundants of females scrolling around, in singles, pairs & wot not, (spot the hint, 'abundants of females') chance to work your DJ skills in a low risk environment.

Now you wont just stand out look'n 'shiny', ladies have a thing about guys with 'real' jewellery & i'm noy talk'n about gold diggers. Explanation, not entirely sure, but if you do have one please MSG me. One time i had this lady bend over to see what brand my watch was, NOT KIDDING!

Keep in mind that weman are a thousand times betta at detecting some cheap crap with the real thing, but, the imatations these days are pretty dam good, witch is advantage to you.

Me talk'n about jewellery & that, you probably expect me to have a Rolex or something, but i but i don't. This is my list:
>1*Seiko watch - 170$ (but could of got one 1/3 of the price that look the same anyway)
>1*Silver Figoro Bracelet - 40$ (had for like five years)
>1* Necklace with crucifix 50$ (don't remember how long i had)
>1*White Gold Ring with Onix stone - 80$
I got all my stuff at marked down prices, you can save $$$$ up to like 70%^, espicialy around christmas, valentines day, ect. Your choice.

The good thing with jewellery is that they never go out of style witch is why they are a good investment.

Now go out & their give urself a gift....Owe, & the ladies, lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you need to do all that to get a women you might aswell get a prostitute instead, p*ss poor post.
 

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If I had one of those Men In Black memory blinker out things I'd write myself a short note to not read this and then blink myself.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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bigjohnson said:
If I had one of those Men In Black memory blinker out things I'd write myself a short note to not read this and then blink myself.
:crackup:
 

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If you need to do all that to get a women you might aswell get a prostitute instead, p*ss poor post.
Actually the boy has the right idea but the wrong idea, if you know what I mean.

Yes jewelry stores = good place to pull chicks, they also = bad place to buy your bling, do you have any idea how much overhead and tax and other crap your paying on you bling there mate ??.

Here's a tip pick up your phone book and look for people that custom make jewelery go see them and get a quote for a ring you fancy, lets say 20 diamonds and 20 rubies set in white gold, I got mine for $1800 NZ dollars, valued to resale at $4500 or so in a store.

I sold it to a private collector for $3000.

And jewelery sales people don't know sh!t they just know how to show you the best deal in store which equals a nice fat commission for them.

And about picking up chicks with bling on, yea your most likely going to get gold diggers unless you show them a portfolio that shows what you can get made for half the price for that cheap crap they are about to buy in store. (But thats a whole other story)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ouch...learn to spell!

Also, write a decent post! Not many good PUAs I know wear bling. Most have some small thing to peacock- a nice watch or a thumb ring.
 

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betta? weman? What the **** is wrong with you?

I personally don't like blood diamonds or any kind of "bling". It looks pathetic on most people. Male or female. A white gold crucific necklace covered with diamonds? Just like Jesus wanted it?

So she looked at your watch. Then what?

You say "bling" never goes out of style..... I think it does. Just look at the word.
 

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This would be an awesome post if it didn't look like it was written by an illiterate seventh grader.
 

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Now I agree about getting a nice watch. Other than that, it depends on your individual style...if it works for you go for it, but nothing looks dumber than fake coolness, or worse looking like some kind of wannabe hardco 4 sho gangsta muhhfuca who really is from the suburbs and shops at Hollister.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The original poster is on the right track.

Jewelry by itself won't pull the chicks, but like nice clothes and good grooming, this kind of thing is cumulative.

Up until two years ago, I was wearing a Seiko watch dad bought me in 1988. Suddenly I decided I should be wearing something a bit more contemporary and dressier for wearing with suits. Ended up with a Mont Banc chronograph automatic that cost slightly more than one fortnight's pay packet.

At the time I thought I was mad, but now I love this watch. And when I wear the thing and it makes me feel damn good. I learned ultimately, it's not about what others think, but how these items make you feel. That positive energy will then project out to others.

As for other jewelry, you can get nice stainless steel men's jewerly now that looks pretty good. Stainless steel gear is not expensive and it also matches your watch perfectly (even pricy watches are only made of SS, of varying grades of course). I have five steel rings that I circulate each day wearing to the office. Also have a braclet and two steel pendants...these get commented on fairly often, even though they cost around $100 AUD each.

Also have a heavy-looking stainless steel chain necklace that cost $25 (marked down from $75) but has a nice polish to it and the design is not too gangsta. It's best to have it peeking out from under my shirt collar....very understated, but people know you put effort into dressing up, even when it's just a jeans and t-shirt outfit.

The finish on stainless steel items can either be a brushed matte look or polished, or a combination of the two. Plus it does not tarnish like sterling silver does.
 

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Just another example of how "rapitalism" is affecting pop culture and making people think they have to buy chains to be cool. Are you going to get a grill too? I think both are pathetic attempts at peacocking.

I know a kid who is straight up OBSESSED with chains. He used to wear 9 little ones around his neck before he got robbed gunpoint. Yeah, wearing flashy things around people who don't have much money can cause problems! a shocker...

Now he just wears one chain but still talks about it like its the coolest thing ever..."ohhh when those b1tches see my chain they know im ferreal!"

If you have muscles, game, a big d1ck, or all of the above, you don't need some flashy attention horing male jewelry. Jewelry is for women, I don't wear a single piece except for a watch...a nice K. Cole watch but I don't consider that jewelry. You're just going to come off as some wanna be rap star if you wear all the things you're talking about.
 

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dawg, I just hope that English is NOT your first language, because this post was a HOT MESS! What the hell were you trying to say?
 

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Talk about the dumbing down of America's youth these days. What a shame.
"weman"..WTF.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I hate jewelry. Makes me feel like a tool when i've got it on. The only accessory i'd invest in is a nice watch - SWISS all the way.
 

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Nah just another moron who thinks his advice is worth something.

Enjoy your self perceived internet fame though.


Just kidding I loved your advice, I went out and bought 3 chains, a grill for my mouf and for my car, and a cavalier on 13" gold daytons.
 

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I wear a rediculous 14 karat gold chain around my neck most of the time. It looks really odd on me and I know it. It makes me laugh.

comic_relief
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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