"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have come back here after a long hiatus, and this forum SUCKS.


95% of everything I read here is from guys that 'want' to know what the fck they are talking about, but they have absolutely NO experience w/picking up girls in REAL TIME.

Best advice to those just starting out is to get as much social interation as possible, and stay the fck away from these forums, as you will only get advice from bitter guys that get their self-worth from making up shlt in their heads.

btw the dj bible is ok, but it won't make sense unless you have been going out....

good luck guys.




animal crackers
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jariel

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I'm with you. I decided to take a look in after a break too and this place is a total nerd fest!

Part of me thinks I should spend more time here again and try and help out the way others here helped me, then another part thinks this forum is a lost cause. For every 1 solid piece of advice (like the above) there are 10 posts saying the opposite.
 

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Jariel said:
I'm with you. I decided to take a look in after a break too and this place is a total nerd fest!

Part of me thinks I should spend more time here again and try and help out the way others here helped me, then another part thinks this forum is a lost cause. For every 1 solid piece of advice (like the above) there are 10 posts saying the opposite.
I don't think it's a lost cause, though I think a large part of turning this forum around is increasing the number of moderators and toughening up on the rules. 90% of the crap posts on here wouldn't be tolerated on the other forum I read.
 

Call_Me_Daddy

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Jariel said:
I'm with you. I decided to take a look in after a break too and this place is a total nerd fest!

Part of me thinks I should spend more time here again and try and help out the way others here helped me, then another part thinks this forum is a lost cause. For every 1 solid piece of advice (like the above) there are 10 posts saying the opposite.
I agree 100%. Thinking the same thing.
 

Freddy1

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I have to agree. Theres only a few Gold Nuggets of good stuff here and there but the rest is junk.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Phyzzle

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It's not that the guys here are all that stupid, they're just kids.

No one says their age unless you ask, and then it's 15. A 15 y.o. kid who's made 6 friends in his life is not gonna post interesting questions, much less decent answers.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=109951

And other guys seem completely retarded until you find out that he's a 15 y.o. living in Chile who barely knows English. A LOT of guys here are like that.

Honestly, if I had posted here at ~16 years of age, I would have been banned as a troll due to irredeemable social cluelessness.
 
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