"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Blind leading Blind

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I have come back here after a long hiatus, and this forum SUCKS.


95% of everything I read here is from guys that 'want' to know what the fck they are talking about, but they have absolutely NO experience w/picking up girls in REAL TIME.

Best advice to those just starting out is to get as much social interation as possible, and stay the fck away from these forums, as you will only get advice from bitter guys that get their self-worth from making up shlt in their heads.

btw the dj bible is ok, but it won't make sense unless you have been going out....

good luck guys.




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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jariel

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I'm with you. I decided to take a look in after a break too and this place is a total nerd fest!

Part of me thinks I should spend more time here again and try and help out the way others here helped me, then another part thinks this forum is a lost cause. For every 1 solid piece of advice (like the above) there are 10 posts saying the opposite.
 

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Jariel said:
I'm with you. I decided to take a look in after a break too and this place is a total nerd fest!

Part of me thinks I should spend more time here again and try and help out the way others here helped me, then another part thinks this forum is a lost cause. For every 1 solid piece of advice (like the above) there are 10 posts saying the opposite.
I don't think it's a lost cause, though I think a large part of turning this forum around is increasing the number of moderators and toughening up on the rules. 90% of the crap posts on here wouldn't be tolerated on the other forum I read.
 

Call_Me_Daddy

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Jariel said:
I'm with you. I decided to take a look in after a break too and this place is a total nerd fest!

Part of me thinks I should spend more time here again and try and help out the way others here helped me, then another part thinks this forum is a lost cause. For every 1 solid piece of advice (like the above) there are 10 posts saying the opposite.
I agree 100%. Thinking the same thing.
 

Freddy1

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I have to agree. Theres only a few Gold Nuggets of good stuff here and there but the rest is junk.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Phyzzle

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It's not that the guys here are all that stupid, they're just kids.

No one says their age unless you ask, and then it's 15. A 15 y.o. kid who's made 6 friends in his life is not gonna post interesting questions, much less decent answers.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=109951

And other guys seem completely retarded until you find out that he's a 15 y.o. living in Chile who barely knows English. A LOT of guys here are like that.

Honestly, if I had posted here at ~16 years of age, I would have been banned as a troll due to irredeemable social cluelessness.
 
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