"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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blind date sort of thing?

thissean

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So my friend told me that one of his friends thought that i was hot, and i agreed to meet up with them for coffee.

but i got to thinking, if im not interested in her, how could i let her know. i ask this because i dont want my friend to get upset at me for rejecting her, and dont want to mess up my friendship with him for that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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alnite

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You are asking how to let her know you are not interested!?

That is one thing that all of us here have at least done it once (or twice, or even several times) in the past.

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Lexie

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Yep, just say, well it was nice to meet you, see you around. And leave it at that. Hopefully your friend is mature enough not to let something like this mess up your friendship. But who knows, maybe you'll end up liking her!
 
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