"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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blind date sort of thing?

thissean

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So my friend told me that one of his friends thought that i was hot, and i agreed to meet up with them for coffee.

but i got to thinking, if im not interested in her, how could i let her know. i ask this because i dont want my friend to get upset at me for rejecting her, and dont want to mess up my friendship with him for that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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alnite

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You are asking how to let her know you are not interested!?

That is one thing that all of us here have at least done it once (or twice, or even several times) in the past.

:crazy:
 

Lexie

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Yep, just say, well it was nice to meet you, see you around. And leave it at that. Hopefully your friend is mature enough not to let something like this mess up your friendship. But who knows, maybe you'll end up liking her!
 
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