"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Blind Date Episode Here!
- Thread starter DJnoob
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
she's probably bisexual, i would not touch that. the look on his face is ... "total disappointment" - it was a mismatch from the start anyways.
everything the guy did was right, he was calm, and chill even though his body language was very neutral showing he was not interested in her. i think he almost got a hook up with that blonde in the bar.
everything the guy did was right, he was calm, and chill even though his body language was very neutral showing he was not interested in her. i think he almost got a hook up with that blonde in the bar.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
I stopped watching just after seeing the girl and the guy.
The girl is absolutely horrible to my standards, rather ugly, short hair, NOT feminine at all, weird "artist" tendencies, and so on...
She would pay me $100 to sleep with her, I still won't do it.
The girl is absolutely horrible to my standards, rather ugly, short hair, NOT feminine at all, weird "artist" tendencies, and so on...
She would pay me $100 to sleep with her, I still won't do it.