"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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blew her off but she still wants to bang?

GuanYu

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I was involved with a 20 yr old for about 5 months. Things were fun until she began disrespecting me then the "relationship" changed. I made the mistake and actually tried to have one with this girl, but she was a slvt - always going to parties, freak dancing other guys, etc so I called things off with her a few weeks before here birthday. It wasn't a cordial breakup either, I let her know she didn't measure up to expectations I have in a woman, she was too young and not grown up yet, etc. She didn't take it too well and even went a little psycho before finally accepting it.

She then starts to be indifferent since she already had a replacement c0ck and didn't initiate any contact for about 1.5 weeks. Then she starts texting again so I'm thinking cool, maybe she's over me.

Now for the past week or so she's always texting. She wants to "hang out" and even suggested we get together for my birthday?? Of course I told her I already had plans, but she's still persistent in wanting to spend time together.

I'm not going to lie, I wouldn't mind fvcking her again. However, I'm not sure what her intentions are. For more than a week she wants to hang, but I've been busy and haven't set anything up. She's acting like her schedule is wide open and would meet up anytime it's convenient for me.

Would it be a mistake to get together with this girl again? I don't have any intentions on investing any emotions I just want to hit. But there's a strong possibility that she may get reattached.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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So, after you break up she already started getting c0ck. If she really was sad over her loss of you she wouldn't be out fvcking other guys right away.

Forget about it.
 

Following_of_Me

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Doesn't look like there is much hope for this one. Either she wants to hook up or get back together. You can hook up with her again if you want to, but don't bother with anything serious. This girl isn't mature enough for you, find someone who lives up to your standards.
 

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If you can remain emotionally un-attached, go for it.

You did say she went a little "psycho" though... so be prepared for whatever bull**** she has up her sleeve.

How old is she anyway? :)
 

GuanYu

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she just turned 20. The h0 can suck a mean d*ck too. I'll give her that.

I agree, she's definitely FB material. There's no way I can get emotionally attached to her since I know she doesn't bring much to the table.

I expect I'll probably be fvcking her again within 2 weeks or so. I think she'll be on the rag shortly so I'll refrain from hooking up until I know for sure she's off.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonJuan11

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GuanYu said:
I'm not going to lie, I wouldn't mind fvcking her again. However, I'm not sure what her intentions are. For more than a week she wants to hang, but I've been busy and haven't set anything up. She's acting like her schedule is wide open and would meet up anytime it's convenient for me.

Would it be a mistake to get together with this girl again? I don't have any intentions on investing any emotions I just want to hit. But there's a strong possibility that she may get reattached.
I think you're more worried that you may reattached. If you don't see a future together and just want to hit it, go for it.
 

Black suit

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Dude, I think you worried a bit about unintentionally getting reattached yourself. I can see that. I'd stay away if I were you. Personally, I'd go if there was significant ego boost material there. :(
 
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It's about her ego. I wouldn't go anywhere near a woman scorned.

She is the type that would **** you and then say the other guy had a bigger **** and out the door she goes.

Leaving you ****ed up in your head.

Basically she isn't used to being dumped and is too immature to handle it. So she wants to recatch your interests.
 

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I'm in this exact situation with some new neighbor girl that moved in, been ignoring her and it's been driving her nuts after she showed no respect while in my apartment and appeared mostly as a digger. Anyway I ignore her in the common area and she's always trying to talk to me and I just keep playing the jerk role and it's driving her crazy. She's blowing up my phone and txting me all the time to hang out, but you know what? I have rules and she's too close for home to spark off any drama, I don't want any in such a close proximity. In your case... like others were saying FB material, why not hit it again? You decide how much it's worth to you, if it's too much trouble move on, otherwise...
 
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