Blanking Out and missed oppurtunities

[GlutusMaximus86]

Today I was at Best Buy checking out some CDs when a good looking (8.5-9) girl asked if I needed help with anything. I said no I am fine but thanks anyway. That was my first mistake. she then walked in front of me and said "you worked for the hazels over the summer with all college baseball players right?" I said yes and asked her how she knew and she said she visted there once and remembers seeing me. The fact she remembers was a real plus (I didn't realize it at the time though) considering all the college baseball players looked better then me and almost all of them are natural DJs. After that we just said cya later and moved on. A couple minutes afterwards I realized I had probably just missed a golden oppurtunity to get a #.

I've had a lot of other situations where I look into a girls eyes as were passing each other and we'll smile at each other but I won't say anything bc I just blank out for some reason. I'm not sure why my brain just seems to shut off when that happens and then right afterwards I realize I had just missed an oppurtunity for a #. My question is how can I get myself to stop blanking out and missing oppurtunities? It maybe nervousness but I am not nearly as nervous around women as I used to be.

Thanks in advance for any replies.

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

yeah, you gotta go out and execute right when the seeds of doubt begin growing on you.

 

[PiHiPlaya]

I agree with Ded just go for it when you start doubting yourself.

Also, the best buy scenario can be easily fixed by going back another time... if she's there, she'll find you.

 

[GlutusMaximus86]

Thanks for the advice guys I'll definatly execute when I start doubting myself again.

Also, the best buy scenario can be easily fixed by going back another time... if she's there, she'll find you.

That's very true, makes me a lot less angry about what happened yesterday. again thatnks for the advice guys

 

[THA REALNESS]

Yo glutus,what my advice is to stop thinking about anything when you see a girl you want to PU just go for it ,man.

Dont worry about she says or does just fire up conversation .With time you´ll be throwing numbers away and blowing off dates instead of kicking yorself in the azz.

The key to it all is to remember you´re just gonna have normal converation with another human being .And don´t ever forget that,you are just talking to somebody.

Btw,she was ripe for the picking ,but she was an employee right?

 

[GlutusMaximus86]

Good Advice THA REALNESS. Women are just human beings just like us.

Btw,she was ripe for the picking ,but she was an employee right?

Yeah she was an employee. Why do you ask?