"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ Axton

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What to say if a woman blanks you. I mean like if you say hi to a girl and she just totally ignores you and walks past you.

When this happens to me usually I just take it as a no, but the downside is if you're with people it makes u look like an idiot and i was just wondering if anyone had a good line that would reel her back in literally.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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john paul

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Say hey your real friendly or something along those lines to make her feel like a ***** for not saying anything. Or what really gets your point across is saying wow your a stuckup ***** and walk away. Iv said this a couple times when the situation was right. Obviously your not going to be getting her number after this but she will feel like an idiot and you will look good if your worried about looking stupid infront of people.
 

LostAndConfused

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Wouldn't getting ignored by a chick totally kill your social proof though, john paul? In terms of high school only of course.

I would just say "Bïtch" loud enough for her to hear, basically what john paul said was good, but I think your high school game goes down severely when a girl ignores you.

Because when a girl ignores you, you aren't in with her, or her friends, or her friends' friends, and you look bad in front of everyone else who is there to witness it.
 
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