"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ Axton

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What to say if a woman blanks you. I mean like if you say hi to a girl and she just totally ignores you and walks past you.

When this happens to me usually I just take it as a no, but the downside is if you're with people it makes u look like an idiot and i was just wondering if anyone had a good line that would reel her back in literally.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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john paul

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Say hey your real friendly or something along those lines to make her feel like a ***** for not saying anything. Or what really gets your point across is saying wow your a stuckup ***** and walk away. Iv said this a couple times when the situation was right. Obviously your not going to be getting her number after this but she will feel like an idiot and you will look good if your worried about looking stupid infront of people.
 

LostAndConfused

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Wouldn't getting ignored by a chick totally kill your social proof though, john paul? In terms of high school only of course.

I would just say "Bïtch" loud enough for her to hear, basically what john paul said was good, but I think your high school game goes down severely when a girl ignores you.

Because when a girl ignores you, you aren't in with her, or her friends, or her friends' friends, and you look bad in front of everyone else who is there to witness it.
 
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