"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Blame the boomers

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http://www.metronews.ca/toronto/comment/article/149497

f youth is wasted on the young then maybe love is too. How else to explain yet another young woman selling her virginity on the web, or the blogs, books and TV shows promoting starter marriages?

I was talking to a young friend about relationships. I wondered how she meets guys.

Do she and her friends go to bars? “Oh no,” she said. She and her friends might go to bars to meet a guy for a one-night fling but to find a meaningful relationship, they go online.

And what do they do, I asked, once they’ve found these meaningful relationships. Do they marry? “Lol,” she said. Why would they marry? Why bother?


An excellent article which drives the point home.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The American Way:

When sh#t goes wrong, throw the blame on someone else. Never admit fault. Its never your fault.
 

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No, the baby boomers really did begin the end for American morals and stuff. The free love and drugs never ended. When my parents say something bad about my generation, I politely remind them where we learned it.
 

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It's true though. The boomer generation destroyed America. Not just from an economic standpoint, but eroding any sense of morals or right and wrong.

They were the hippies in the 60's and early 70's, and when they realized that wouldn't work, they decided to be smarter about it. Instead of being anti-establishment, they would BECOME the establishment.

So they shaved off their long, stupid hair and went into education, news, and politics to "change America." And starting about 20 years ago, they got in charge.

They wrecked and are continuing to wreck our country every day.
 

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I feel bad for America. I hate those guys who are ruining the world [not talking about America here, fyi.]
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is it true they will also eat up social security like a plague of geriatric locusts?

That is the common opinion but I heard one of my economics professors say that won't happen. I don't know who to believe.
 

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Did your econ professor give any reasons why?

I'm pretty sure they will eat up SS and other government funds unless certain things happen. If the government cuts into their benefits, either reducing them or raising the age at which you can claim them, that could balance things out.

However, old people can still vote, and I can't see the boomers voting to make things worse for themselves. The me generation won't be too concerned with indebting their kids.

The other thing that could happen is they all start dying much faster than the projections expect.. This is possible since so many are overweight and have diabetes, etc, but medicine seems to be getting pretty good at keeping people alive.

Finally, a MASSIVE baby boom/immigration could avoid the problem, as the issue really is just too few working people compared to the number of retired people. However, I can't really see this happening.

In conclusion, I'd like to see your professor's reasoning. Because I can only see the younger generation being taxed to death for the next 30 years.
 
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