Blackdragon's Summer Time Apporach Journal

[Blackdragon5095]

June 03, 2006

Lately I haven't done any apporaches, I been in down time. I will not give up and contuine to do this 100 apporach journal. I realize I need to do alot of reading on self inner game. ( like david deangleo remmomded books ). I will finish this before summer.
I know I annouced that I was quitting because of people posts. But I'm just gonna ignore posts like that.
Look out for my new apporaches with new confidence.


" If I don't apporach , I won't learn " ~ Blackdragon

 

[Blackdragon5095]

June 03, 2006 (Update)

It's been a week since I been apporaching, I have learned alot thanks to this journal. I have gotten better at it too. For now on, if I ever see another post saying my apporach journal will be 100% failure and all I won't learn anything from it or I'll just crush and burn in all my apporaches. I will ignore it. I stared this for improvement, which I have gotten. I learn so much to this and to listen to nonsense like that. I will just ignore it.

Now for the apporches. I did 2 today. Remember I haven't been apporaching for a week thanks to people wanting me to fail.

I saw this 1 girl with her mother. When I got close I realize she was 14/15.

Me: can let me help you with that ( I pick up 2 bags of water bottles )
mother: thanks
me: no problem ( smile )
me: so how was your day ? ( facing the cutegirl and realzing she 14/15 )
cutegirl: good
me: getting into trouble yet ?
mother: no she not getting in trouble ( definding her daughter )
( me and the mother talked and I got a thanks for helping them to their car.)

( I tired but hey thats what I get for listening to idoits )


It was nite time. I saw this real cute girl come in. We both looked at each other for a bit. I smiled firsted and so did she. ( I feel like I'm having the power to make people smile ) I saw her later at the U-scan.

Me: what happen their ( pointing at the sun burn )
real cutegirl: sun burn
me: what happen ?
( before she could say, her lil sis starts trying to poke her sunburn)
( then after that a co-worker started talking)
To just warp it up. ****blocking. But my attudie was better then before.


Overall:
Another learning day, read about clockblocking.

45/100

 

[Microphone Fiend]

u quit because someone said you would fail...how ironic.

 

[Blackdragon5095]

June 04, 2006

Today I could bearly get a apporach in, they mangers had my ass working hard. Also I mostly saw young girls such sucked. Anyway I decided to apporach this 1 young girl just for pratice. Due to the low amount of people being their.

The girl comes down the line that I'm bagging at. She a little cute but just young again ( 15 or 16 ) ugh. I have to pratice apporaching anyway so I gusse she will have to do.

Me: You can come down here and help me out
Cutegirl: ( smiles and comes down to help me )
Me: Wow you a strong girl ( smile )
Cutegirl: lol
Me: So do you play sports ?
Cutegirl: Yeah, I do soccer, track and Dancing
Me: whats your name ?
Cutegirl: Becca
Me: So becca you dance huh ?
Me: maybe we can to go the club and you show me some moves
Cutegirl: lol
Me: ( do a little dance )
Cutegirl: ( begins to laugh some )

After that I get done bagging and I hand the last bag to her. And I say have a nice day.

Overall:
I should have done the soft hand trick.

That was the only apporach I could get in. It wasn't many hot chicks for some reason and the manger worked my ass hard.

46/100

 

[Blackdragon5095]

u quit because someone said you would fail...how ironic.

I was suprisied to see cristism in a apporach journal. But I'm glad I didn't quit. Anyway you have a point. That was stupid of me to want to quit for some stupid $h!t.

Oh yeah Mic, you still doing your apporch journal ?

 

[NorPacWolf]

Composure and Confidence as Demonstrations of Higher Value

Dragon,

It looks like you're blowing up over every little thing. Just chill. Do your thing and then post. If you think a particular post is uninformed or off base, just ignore it. Trust me, if people are intentionally or unintentionally trying to get your goat, you add fuel to the fire by over reacting.

When you are out in the field, you are going to face myriad situations which are shall we say, less than ideal. You can't just blow up if a chick throws up her shield, starts to give you objections, etc. You have to keep your cool. Composure is a major, major DHV.

Wolf

 

[Blackdragon5095]

Dragon,

It looks like you're blowing up over every little thing. Just chill. Do your thing and then post. If you think a particular post is uninformed or off base, just ignore it. Trust me, if people are intentionally or unintentionally trying to get your goat, you add fuel to the fire by over reacting.

When you are out in the field, you are going to face myriad situations which are shall we say, less than ideal. You can't just blow up if a chick throws up her shield, starts to give you objections, etc. You have to keep your cool. Composure is a major, major DHV.

Wolf

You are right, I need to chill out. My self-control is getting better as I go. I just gonna ketp apporaching thats all.
Thanks for the advice wolf.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

yea still doin the journal. I work on a beach resort so I dont have to take days off unless it is pouring (which it is today) so I think imma hit town, buy some protein whey n get a membership.

Anyways nice to see you back, you are gettin smoother in the last 5 or 10 approaches...Close the girls

 

[Blackdragon5095]

I will say guys. I jumped into this apporach journal too fast and didn't think it out right. I will finish it up because I hate to give up on a goal of my. But the next 1 I will add more goals to it.

 

[NorPacWolf]

Confidence and Composure: The Foundation of Game

To elaborate on my previous post, a demonstration of higher value is any sign of male leadership, social status, or self confidence. You can think of myriad examples of these principles: captain of the football team, a wealthy captain of industry, etc. as the most obvious examples.

However, women pick up on more mundane signs of confidence. When you approach in a friendly way, without appearing needy or nervous, that's a DHV. If you can continue speaking to them in an entertaining and articulate manner, that's a DHV. If your body posture is excellent, if you are well dressed, if you have a good physique and a nice looking face, these are DHV's also. In summary, your appearance, your body language and the way you speak can DHV or DLV you.

Women will test and qualify you frequently. They will ask you to buy them a drink. They will ask your age. They will ask you what you do for work. The way you negotiate these various hoops will either allow you to escalate or force you to eject.

There's a thread directly below this one on Mystery's ebook. I highly recommend it. It has lots of useful strategies. However, I say begin with Weapons of Mass Seduction. It is massively useful for addressing self confidence and assertiveness issues.

Also, initially you will have to "fake" being confident around women, if you have not done lots of approaches in the past. This is fine. Realize however that true confidence comes from your accomplishments: from your education, your job, your family ties. True confidence DOES NOT and SHOULD NOT come from how many women you bed or their HB rating. Women will seek you out when you have your act together. DO NOT become obsessed with game. Obsession with game in and of itself is a DLV.


Wolf

 

[Blackdragon5095]

June 11, 2006

It's been a while since I apporached some girls. I been having personal problems and realizing my mistakes in this apporach journal. I do know people started thier apporach journal because of me. I was thinking today ( if I quit how would get stronger ? ). So I'm back in the field.

Double Apporach

I saw 2 7hbs, I told myself. ( Pain = Stronger ) So here I go

Me: Excuse me, I have a question
( both the hb's look at me )
Me: Are you 2 sisters ?
Hb7 (1): no
Hb7 (2): ( smiles and shakes head )
Me: oh, well whats your name ?
Hb7 (1): blah ( I forgot her name )
Me: ( I made some joke about her name which she didn't laugh)
Hb7 (1): ( gives the who the hell are you look )
Me: Wow you giving me a evil look
Me: I'm not gonna do anything ( This is what I get for not apporaching more often, I'm nevrous )
Hb7 (1): ( smiles some ) no I'm not
Hb7 (2): ( smiles )
Me: have a nice day ( I was so neverous )

Overall:
I could have done better if I wasn't so neverous

48/100

 

[Blackdragon5095]

June 12, 2006

Today I hit the gym, I tired this new stuff called crush. It supposed to give you more enegry when working out. I didn't feel any damn thing. I go to this room where I haven't been to. I see this cutegirl look at me give me alot of EC. So I chat her up me.

Me: I never been in this room before
Cutegirl: oh ( looking at me )
Me: So whats your name ?
Cutegirl: Emma
Me: I'm blackdragon
Me: How old are you ?
Cutegirl: 14
Me: damn I though you was maybe 15
Cutegirl: ( smiles at me and laughs some )
Me: I'm 20 ( smiling back )
Cutegirl: oh wow ( most likely disappointed because she though I was younger )
Me: I don't even look 20 do I ?
Cutegirl: no, you look alot younger. You would look younger with the mustage was gone.
Me: yeah
Me: Well it was nice talking to you
Cutegirl: you too

Overall:
Just too young. The miniunal I will go is 16. If she was older I would have asked of the phone number, due to the strong EC. She wasn't hard to chat up ethier.

49/100

 

[Blackdragon5095]

June 17, 2006

Today was hot as hell, I got 2 apporaches in. And today I got another cold shoulder.

I was bagging and I saw this 1 cute girl, funny thing is she had this shirt where the sheeles were cut out. You could see her bra. Lol this is the first time I chat up a girl where you could see her bra. She had 2 friends with her, a guy and 1 girl. I mostly talked to the girls while the guy was doing something. ( I forgot ). But I'm counting his has 1 way apporach because I mostly fouced on 1 girl.

I was gonna tell you what I said and all but again I'm just wrap it up.

What I did do:
EC
Ask for names
Smile & made her laugh

What I didn't do:
Ask for the age ( I don't want a number for a 15 year old girl )
Kino ( I just ketp forgetting the soft hair and hand trick )
Rapport ( I don't know how do to it yet, I'm reading a book on it)

50/100


I was outside pushing a cart I swear this girl looked like she was 15 years old. But I wasn't sure so I went up and chat her up. She was pretty cute.

Me: how old are you ?
Cutegirl: 21
Me: oh I though you was 15 trying to drive a car
Me: I would have to arrest ya (joke )
Cutegirl: ( gets a little worried ) I'm in trouble ?
Me: no
Me: Whats your name
Cutegirl: Blah blah ( I forgot her name )
Cutegirl: I'm pretty busy ( just cuts me off and walks away and gets in her car )
Me: (smile) have a nice day

Ouch she just cut me off. I should have maybe asked for the number AGAIN. I did handle the cold shoulder well though.

51/100

Overall:
I have to ketp apporaching. And ask for numbers.

 

[Blackdragon5095]

1/2 Overall goal:

This was very very hard and could have gotten their faster. I would like to say that I started this apporach jounral to brag. And I'm wrong for doing such a thing.

I learned great deal of info getting here and will do my best to ask for more phone numbers. I will conutine to apporach girls after this apporach journal.

I have to say though, to anyone who thinks this apporach jounral is bullcrap then please don't post here, I'm here to improve and learn. Not to do flame wars.

To people who help me support me like, mic, wolf and charm and more...

Thanks you for helping me and please push me to do phone closes.

 

[Bourne]

Good to see you still on track. Half way there bro, keep it up!

 

[Serialized3]

Don't be afraid of rejection man! Try to close more often, seems like you keep coming up with excuses (like being annoyed by the hb8's laugh) because you're afraid. Just treat it like a game, and go for it bro, you're cutting yourself short.

 

[nonchalant]

f*ck the h8ers baby!!

keep it going!

you have a knack for hitting on really really young chicks lol. i was treated as harshly as you did at the mall when i did speed dating - 2 of those b*tches gave me the 'talk to the hand'. f*ck em!

 

[Blackdragon5095]

You be surpised, I seen girls who I swear to god , look like they are 13 years old and they will be like 20 or 19. LOL they are extra short too.
I will try harder and harder ketp telling myself to ask for phone numbers. Even though I don't have all my sh!t together. Any ideas about what I'm going to do if I get a number ? I need to pull myself together before I begin dating. And move out.

 

[nonchalant]

You be surpised, I seen girls who I swear to god , look like they are 13 years old and they will be like 20 or 19. LOL they are extra short too.
I will try harder and harder ketp telling myself to ask for phone numbers. Even though I don't have all my sh!t together. Any ideas about what I'm going to do if I get a number ? I need to pull myself together before I begin dating. And move out.

hey if there's grass on the field ...

wait a few days then call, be C+F on the phone, dhv, only talk for about 15 minutes or so to build comfort and rapport, don't hang out on the phone for an hour - try to date close. the point of phone is to try to get her to meet you in person for day2.

i'm going to ask for numbers as much as possible too. no dates without numbers. i think i'm done getting over my fear of approach, it's time to get serious and get dates.

 

[Blackdragon5095]

I'm going to take another break, I need to reread my apporach journal a couple of times and I have realize I created some fears and problems. Sry to be stuck at 51 but I need to do alot of reading of fixing myself up first.

How long this will take ?
I don't know, I may not be getting this apporach journal done this summer. I just have alot of thinking to do.