"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Much easier said than done
Yes but it is that easy if you have the connection. The guys doing well look at the game correctly, position themselves correctly, and make the right decisions. If he could get around someone doing well the mindset will start to transfer.

Its the same as a female starting to hang around alot of hos starts acting like and being a ho.
 
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Guys act like it ends at being at 6ft, 6 figures, and a 6 pack when it doesn’t. These are just minimum requirements to get a date with some of these women lol. In addition, most women can’t handle their super man/Tony Stark/Thor hybrid dream guy in the first place.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mister_Skinny_Jeanz

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Alot of the guys here are hung up on looks. Alot of looks is in your mind. Your energy, your confidence, your aura, your fitness, how you move and carry yourself, your hairstyle, your clothing, etc. The facts is no one here needs to be a male model.

So while your worried about your blackpill fantasy of a 6'8" lady killer the following is fvcking the females that you want to:
5'8" dude
20lb overweight
regular d1ck
living in a poor neighborhood
****ing her on a air mattress
5'8 -5'10 is actually decent, somebody would have to be like 6'3 or more for you to really look short compared to them.
 

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It may be my philosophy from 2006 or so when i retired from the game...
If you can open women everywhere
If you Attract them with confidence
If you can Seduce them with words
If you escalate when the time is right
You will be in the top 10% of seducers..
Ricky Rudyard Kipling

Oh and never quit the game... even if you get married.

Now keep in mind there is never escaping the fact that it's a number game and at any given time the women you desire may be in a relationship already. Thats why you should always be meeting new women and never commit to soon. My best success when i was juggling 3 plates (i never had the time for more at the same time, but there was some motion on who were the plates).
 

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Guys act like it ends at being at 6ft, 6 figures, and a 6 pack when it doesn’t. These are just minimum requirements to get a date with some of these women lol. In addition, most women can’t handle their super man/Tony Stark/Thor hybrid dream guy in the first place.
This very true, being top of the line man simply means a lot less of real ltr candidates/dating pool, most cant handles a strong personality man which why audience may see feminine man are becoming norm for women these days for ltr. Mostly are pump and dump to these high value man.
 

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This is why I say half these people on here especially mods, are bull****ters, no receipts, no proof, just pure conjecture.

All they've done to establish credibility is attach themselves to a conglomerate of posts written by others.
Methinks we might have a previous bannee on our hands here.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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