"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Black Light Sh*t

Skilla_Staz

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So other than blacklight.com and spencersonline.com, anybody know any good places on the internet to get some blacklight stuff. I'm kinda lookin for some blacklight beaded curtains?

Also lookin for some sweet posters, furniture etc.


I plan on turning my basement into one giant blacklight room.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I found clearneon.com earlier today, and that got me in the artistic mood


I'm thinking about doing a tiger print spiral on one of my walls....and some graffiti words scattered around the other walls...

then get a black light pen, and let people sign the walls when theyre over...

also i plan on tracing the outlines of my wall since 2 of them are large white bricks.

This is gonna be effin sweet.
 

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Hey man I'm in college now and me and my three other roommates put blacklights all around our living room and kitchen in our apartment because we thought it would be fun to have a blacklight party. Turned out that everyone loved it, and we just kept on adding more glow/blacklight stuff each time. ie. fog machine, light show, glow in the dark bottles like here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jt5WUXiZARc which sounds like a lot of money but split between 4 people isn't really. We were actually thinking of getting that invisible black light paint as well and getting my friend's mom to paint something for us since she's good at that stuff, so I hope that goes well. Write back in this thread and tell me how it shows up and goodluck, blacklight are awesome dude and make the perfect party atmosphere.
 

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Did you know if you draw on the walls with Tide laundry detergent it will flouresce in a black light, although virtually invisible in regular light?

Try it. :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I might just give that a shot.


When I get this sh*t all decked out, I'll see if I can snap a picture (No flash, obviously)

I've told a couple chicks about the writing on the wall stuff, and they all want to be the "first" to write on my wall...first come first served lol


Last night at a party, I met this kid who used tags, so I'll probably get him to tag a few things down here.

I was thinkin about getting a fog machine, but since I don't throw parties (too small) or anything here, not sure that it'd even be worth it.
 
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