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Don Juan
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I'm a black guy that's really successful getting white girls even though it isn't my first preference. I love mixed girls but living in Arizona, you can go a whole day seeing nothing but white girls. I can give you a few tips.
Try not to be the 'ghetto white tee wearin, and 1 shorts sportin', peace n chain havin, "kno what im tombout" sayin black guy.
I actually grew up in the hood but had a good upbringing and graduated from college with a business degree and carry myself as such. I talk very proper to the point that I've been called 'whitewashed' (whatever)even though I fall back when I'm with friends. Helps me out in the business world and in the dating scene. My parents are both African and what I've noticed is that African blacks carry themselves differently than American blacks.
I dress in clothes that fit, like 7 jeans, nice shoes, (boots, chuck taylors, pumas). I wear form fitting shirts as well. My hair is always done. Black folks aren't as prone to getting away with scruffy look like white folks IMHO. White folks can get up find a pair of jeans and a shirt laying in the hamper, dust it off, throw it on, have bed head, look uncut, go out, get attention and be called 'scruffy' or rugged. If I did that, I'd be called dirty, or ghetto. The worst I go with is a 2-3 day shadow, looks nice on me but I always smell good and wear something decent when going out.
Try and look your very best, so in regards to being yourself. Be your BEST self. Lift weights, run if you need to lose extra weight, if you can afford them, get braces, buy skin care products for dry skin, pimples, whatever have you, and try to look your very best.
Work on yourself, have other hobbies. I took a hip hop dance class last semester and can now go to the club without even running game and pull women. I watch youtube clips over and over and emulate the moves. White women are simply in awe of some of the basic stuff I do, even though I'm a really good dancer. This girl I'm talking to now swears I dance like MJ. I told her not to diss the king like that and she swore she was serious. being a good dancer requries no game and you can get laid off that alone.
I'm currently in the process of joining an improv class to improve my personality and become even wittier than I am now.
I can do a really funny african man impersonation that kills wherever I go. Definitely puts the attention on me.
It's definitely good to have your head on straight, having a degree, a nice car, and a good job will do wonders for your confidence. I have 2 out of 3 and just waiting on a background check to be completed this week to have a sweet job as well.
In terms of PU, it's a numbers game. I don't care who says otherwise. You want to lay 10-20% of the girls you approach. The more girls you talk to, the better your chances. Don't run those stupid opinion openers UNLESS it's really genuine. Opinion openers blow in day game, they know why you're approaching, be a man and handle your business. Need some openers for day game?
-Hi, I like your shoes/dress/purse....I can tell you have some style, what's your name?
-Hi, mind if I walk with you for a second......so how's your day going?
-Hey I noticed we made pretty strong eye contact so I wanted to see what that was all about....*girl giggles*...what's your name?
-Hey you're pretty cute, what's your name?
-I just had to come say hi or I'd be kicking myself for not saying anything to you, what's your name?
-Hey, you have a unique look to you, what's your nationality?
-Hi.
Over the years I've developed a pretty bomb personality to make people laugh by simply talking about what goes on in the real world and relate it to my or the girls situation. Having a personality along with confidence, and looking your best help out a lot. Develop that by talking to a lot of people and forcing yourself into uncomfortable social situations.
Read Paul Janka and Sinns Pua material.
Don't get it twisted, lots of white girls already have the built in stigma that they won't talk to black guys whether it be family pressure, society, having been burnt in the past by black folks or just not attracted. My ex is like that now, she won't date a black guy. I know a white chick that won't date white guys. You can't change their opinion. I'm most likely gonna marry a black or a mixed girl because that's my and my families preference. This is one reason why I say it's a numbers game. Sometimes you just can't change ones opinion. The more shots you take, the better the chances of scoring.
G/L and Happy Sarging
Try not to be the 'ghetto white tee wearin, and 1 shorts sportin', peace n chain havin, "kno what im tombout" sayin black guy.
I actually grew up in the hood but had a good upbringing and graduated from college with a business degree and carry myself as such. I talk very proper to the point that I've been called 'whitewashed' (whatever)even though I fall back when I'm with friends. Helps me out in the business world and in the dating scene. My parents are both African and what I've noticed is that African blacks carry themselves differently than American blacks.
I dress in clothes that fit, like 7 jeans, nice shoes, (boots, chuck taylors, pumas). I wear form fitting shirts as well. My hair is always done. Black folks aren't as prone to getting away with scruffy look like white folks IMHO. White folks can get up find a pair of jeans and a shirt laying in the hamper, dust it off, throw it on, have bed head, look uncut, go out, get attention and be called 'scruffy' or rugged. If I did that, I'd be called dirty, or ghetto. The worst I go with is a 2-3 day shadow, looks nice on me but I always smell good and wear something decent when going out.
Try and look your very best, so in regards to being yourself. Be your BEST self. Lift weights, run if you need to lose extra weight, if you can afford them, get braces, buy skin care products for dry skin, pimples, whatever have you, and try to look your very best.
Work on yourself, have other hobbies. I took a hip hop dance class last semester and can now go to the club without even running game and pull women. I watch youtube clips over and over and emulate the moves. White women are simply in awe of some of the basic stuff I do, even though I'm a really good dancer. This girl I'm talking to now swears I dance like MJ. I told her not to diss the king like that and she swore she was serious. being a good dancer requries no game and you can get laid off that alone.
I'm currently in the process of joining an improv class to improve my personality and become even wittier than I am now.
I can do a really funny african man impersonation that kills wherever I go. Definitely puts the attention on me.
It's definitely good to have your head on straight, having a degree, a nice car, and a good job will do wonders for your confidence. I have 2 out of 3 and just waiting on a background check to be completed this week to have a sweet job as well.
In terms of PU, it's a numbers game. I don't care who says otherwise. You want to lay 10-20% of the girls you approach. The more girls you talk to, the better your chances. Don't run those stupid opinion openers UNLESS it's really genuine. Opinion openers blow in day game, they know why you're approaching, be a man and handle your business. Need some openers for day game?
-Hi, I like your shoes/dress/purse....I can tell you have some style, what's your name?
-Hi, mind if I walk with you for a second......so how's your day going?
-Hey I noticed we made pretty strong eye contact so I wanted to see what that was all about....*girl giggles*...what's your name?
-Hey you're pretty cute, what's your name?
-I just had to come say hi or I'd be kicking myself for not saying anything to you, what's your name?
-Hey, you have a unique look to you, what's your nationality?
-Hi.
Over the years I've developed a pretty bomb personality to make people laugh by simply talking about what goes on in the real world and relate it to my or the girls situation. Having a personality along with confidence, and looking your best help out a lot. Develop that by talking to a lot of people and forcing yourself into uncomfortable social situations.
Read Paul Janka and Sinns Pua material.
Don't get it twisted, lots of white girls already have the built in stigma that they won't talk to black guys whether it be family pressure, society, having been burnt in the past by black folks or just not attracted. My ex is like that now, she won't date a black guy. I know a white chick that won't date white guys. You can't change their opinion. I'm most likely gonna marry a black or a mixed girl because that's my and my families preference. This is one reason why I say it's a numbers game. Sometimes you just can't change ones opinion. The more shots you take, the better the chances of scoring.
G/L and Happy Sarging
. I appreciate it.