CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
Thinking everything is either this or that is not only harming your dating life, but a lazy man’s way of thinking too. For example: You have Girl A and Girl B
Girl A). Never went to college, never left the vicinity of her home town outside a couple of vacations to the Florida panhandle, brunette, works at hooters, flat chested, lives in the far flung suburbs near family and HS friends, her exes all consist of blue collar Kyle’s that still wear Abercrombie and live in 2000s MTV era
Girl B). Went to college, parents are doctors, studied abroad in France, works at Deloitte, attractive blonde, lives in one of the most expensive & liberal part of the city, none of her friends went to her HS and all have diverse backgrounds, her ex was a Chad that had to relocate for medical residency
With black and white thinking, everything that applies to these girls is the exact same thing. How can you possibly argue that the same rules apply to these women?
Girl A). Never went to college, never left the vicinity of her home town outside a couple of vacations to the Florida panhandle, brunette, works at hooters, flat chested, lives in the far flung suburbs near family and HS friends, her exes all consist of blue collar Kyle’s that still wear Abercrombie and live in 2000s MTV era
Girl B). Went to college, parents are doctors, studied abroad in France, works at Deloitte, attractive blonde, lives in one of the most expensive & liberal part of the city, none of her friends went to her HS and all have diverse backgrounds, her ex was a Chad that had to relocate for medical residency
With black and white thinking, everything that applies to these girls is the exact same thing. How can you possibly argue that the same rules apply to these women?
