spesmilitis
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I wish that he would fvcken friends me already.
I sent out my request over a month ago and I am still waiting on it.
comic_relief
I sent out my request over a month ago and I am still waiting on it.
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LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
who is bjert bro?
[S]alvatore
Master Don Juan
Much love for Bjerte
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
an icelandic troll, whom is amazingly funny. Almost as good as Dr. Beard.LA_Chico said:
comic_relief
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
spesmilitis
Master Don Juan
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he hasn't logged in since sept.
look at his comments, he's made a few friends.
look at his comments, he's made a few friends.
Cloudtopsun2100
Senior Don Juan
IM on the list-- ya hes been MIA