"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BJ strategies

mustfirstregister

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need strategies to ask gf for BJ. she did it once to me however the next time i try, she refused the offer. This has never happened to me with my previous gfs. I have no exp handling this, any suggestion will be appreciated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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pdx1138

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Don't ask her.

Get her all hot & bothered/wet, then move your junk near her face and command her to suck it.

I've gotten women to do (repeatedly) some crazy $hit they told me they wouldn't do or didn't like in the heat of passion.

They seldom refuse when in "submission mode."

To ensure she complies this next time, get her buzz/drunk goin.
 

Handsfull

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Dump her. I'm not kidding man. i know people are fast to say this, but do it. You DO NOT ask a girl to suck your d1ck. She should want to. I just dumped a chick three weeks ago, who I'll probably post about again at some point. Anyway, we dated for three months. She didnt give me ONE BJ. Sex was great, however. The no BJ thing was part of the thing that played into her getting DUMPED. I could tell she thought she was too good to do it. And there was no way in hell I was going to ask. "Please, M'lady. Will you suck my d1ck?" How awkward, and degrading is that? Even more so when she tells you "Naw, I'm good." **** girls like that. I've had girls beg for my cvmm. So chicks like this just make my d1ck laugh.
 

Bible_Belt

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I have tolerated the 'no bj' mindset for one-night stands, but if a girl is your girlfriend, and especially if you are getting her off orally, I would call her out on it.

"So, do you have some sort of thing against bl0wjobs? Is that a feminist thing?"

What's she going to do, dump you? Like that's a punishment :rolleyes:
 

Zerro

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Oral should always be a one-for-one thing, if you're going down on her then she's gotta go down on you. If she won't blow then she won't get any tongue action downstairs either. She'll also get dumped after that time because there's no sense in sticking with a chick who won't do something that most others will do without a complaint.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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