Bizzare 'feedback' situation

[Comatozed]

Basically this girl I just went on a date with posted to fb ...

'wow..hot and cold date...can't call it'

Bizzare cos she doesn't know I've seen that, as it's through tinder..but I found her through detective work.

How to proceed?

She has text me like 10 mins ago saying thanks for the date. I've not replied. Should I? and when?

Also, I thought the date went well in the fact that I negged and flirted, but maaaybe bad in lack of kino/escalation. She seemed to really enjoy it though, I'd tease her and she took it, called me arrogant and gave general IOI, I'd pretend to be uninterested at times, she even commented how I would just gaze away into the distance from time to time. I did this on purpose to seem aloof. Definitely the most, I've tired to build rapport, then break it on a date in my life.

I just didn't have the opportunity to kiss close as we got the tram back from the destination and I got off at my stop before hers. Coulda tried to stay on but meh?

So, how to proceed. Reckon I have a chance at date 2? If so, when to text, and what to do on date. Guessing escalate more.

Is being 'hot and cold' a good or bad thing. Confused.

Help.

 

[TheException]

Is being 'hot and cold' a good or bad thing. Confused.

Who cares. Invite to hang out in a few days....her response will let you know if its "good or bad".

Help.

Help yourself. Quit over analyzing every little detail. The only measure of success is sexual progress.

Physical Touch > Kiss > Makeout > Get your feelz on > Sex

 

[jimmy18]

Don't pay attention to her fakebook words, but observe her actions when you ask her out again.

And certainly don't tell her you stalked her online

 

[TheCWord]

Basically this girl I just went on a date with posted to fb ...

'wow..hot and cold date...can't call it'

What kind of girl does this? Is she 17? I wouldn't respond to her simply because she seems to be one of those people who over-share on social media.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Yeah it's good. She hasn't figured you out in one date. As David D. used to say: "2 steps forward, 1 step back."

****ing chicks posting their dates on FB.

Bizzare cos she doesn't know I've seen that, as it's through tinder..but I found her through detective work

Don't creep her FB. And don't try to analyze what she says. Half the $hit she says anyways, you can pretty much guarantee the opposite. Actions not words.

Just proceed as normal. In the meantime, find yourself some more dates (with other chicks).

 

[( . )( . )]

I wouldn't put too much stock into what she says on chickbook. I dare say she's just jockeying for status points from the hivemind by indicating she's desired.

Next time go for the growler.

 

[The411]

Basically this girl I just went on a date with posted to fb ...

'wow..hot and cold date...can't call it'

Bizzare cos she doesn't know I've seen that, as it's through tinder..but I found her through detective work.

How to proceed?

She has text me like 10 mins ago saying thanks for the date. I've not replied. Should I? and when?

Also, I thought the date went well in the fact that I negged and flirted, but maaaybe bad in lack of kino/escalation. She seemed to really enjoy it though, I'd tease her and she took it, called me arrogant and gave general IOI, I'd pretend to be uninterested at times, she even commented how I would just gaze away into the distance from time to time. I did this on purpose to seem aloof. Definitely the most, I've tired to build rapport, then break it on a date in my life.

I just didn't have the opportunity to kiss close as we got the tram back from the destination and I got off at my stop before hers. Coulda tried to stay on but meh?

So, how to proceed. Reckon I have a chance at date 2? If so, when to text, and what to do on date. Guessing escalate more.

Is being 'hot and cold' a good or bad thing. Confused.

Help.

Cool story bro.

Let's pretend this Aspie story actually happened.

Dude meets girl on Tinder and goes on date.

Dude pretends to be aloof and uses socially clueless PUA terms like a cult programmed dysfunctional robot.

Dude who pretends he's aloof stalks chick on FB and conveniently sees a post of her being "unsure" and takes it to heart.

Dude posts story on So Suave looking for advice on when he should text/call her back due to this mind numbing "dilemna".

1) Pic of FB post from chick or it didn't happen.

2) If pic provided and story is true. You're in bad shape kid. Text her when you feel like it.

Hopefully she realizes you're a weirdo and doesn't respond.

Do us all a favor and take the express train back to Comatose city and stay on it.

 

[( . )( . )]

Cool story bro.

Let's pretend this Aspie story actually happened.

Hopefully she realizes you're a weirdo and doesn't respond.

Do us all a favor and take the express train back to Comatose city and stay on it.

Sheesh. A tad harsh isn't it?

 

[TheCWord]

Cool story bro.

Let's pretend this Aspie story actually happened.

Dude meets girl on Tinder and goes on date.

Dude pretends to be aloof and uses socially clueless PUA terms like a cult programmed dysfunctional robot.

Dude who pretends he's aloof stalks chick on FB and conveniently sees a post of her being "unsure" and takes it to heart.

Dude posts story on So Suave looking for advice on when he should text/call her back due to this mind numbing "dilemna".

1) Pic of FB post from chick or it didn't happen.

2) If pic provided and story is true. You're in bad shape kid. Text her when you feel like it.

Hopefully she realizes you're a weirdo and doesn't respond.

Do us all a favor and take the express train back to Comatose city and stay on it.

This isn't very productive. OP isn't even the worst poster today. Project your self-loathing on to somebody else. May I suggest skinnyguy?

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Cool story bro.

Let's pretend this Aspie story actually happened.

Dude meets girl on Tinder and goes on date.

Dude pretends to be aloof and uses socially clueless PUA terms like a cult programmed dysfunctional robot.

Dude who pretends he's aloof stalks chick on FB and conveniently sees a post of her being "unsure" and takes it to heart.

Dude posts story on So Suave looking for advice on when he should text/call her back due to this mind numbing "dilemna".

1) Pic of FB post from chick or it didn't happen.

2) If pic provided and story is true. You're in bad shape kid. Text her when you feel like it.

Hopefully she realizes you're a weirdo and doesn't respond.

Do us all a favor and take the express train back to Comatose city and stay on it.

WTF?

 

[jimmy18]

Pretty sure that The411 is Naughty Ninja or one of the other Never-Give-Up, Never-Surrender sosuave.net Trolls, pining for their weekly banning.

 

[No.Danny]

Excuse The411 guys. It's her time of the month. We should try and be understanding.

 

[The411]

Funny how my "jaded view of the dating world" doesn't have me stalking chicks fb posts and analyzing them. Nor does it have me acting in "PUA" lingo programmed mode with chick's in some bizarre ritual attempts to win their favor for some needy validation, or wondering when I should call or text them.

I never subscribed to the "game" cult hive mind and never needed to.

Carry on.

 

[_sideways_]

Whats the growler?

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Whats the growler?

Your Mom's vagina.

Boom roasted.

Funny how my "jaded view of the dating world" doesn't have me stalking chicks fb posts and analyzing them. Nor does it have me acting in "PUA" lingo programmed mode with chick's in some bizarre ritual attempts to win their favor for some needy validation, or wondering when I should call or text them.

I never subscribed to the "game" cult hive mind and never needed to.

Carry on.

Dude, you've made a few "Bizarre Feedback" posts of your own in this thread. Sometimes you just have to call it a night....tomorrow's another day. Make it a good one. (which means no keyboard Jockeying)

 

[El Payaso]

Listen to her actions not her petty words. Reply and say "You had fun too". Nothing more.

Few days or a week later, ask her out. Her response will tell you all you need to know. Simple.