Strange thing happened tonight and I am trying to figure out what happened. This is a girl who contacted me through the Match online dating site. We have been shooting emails back and fourth for a couple of weeks and we were going to meet for an art fair type event downtown they have once a month. We agree to meet at 7:00 this evening in front of this restaurant, and parking is of course terrible. I luck out at the last minute and find a spot, get there and wait. A few minutes later I decide to give her a call and see how she is doing finding a parking spot. I call her and sure enough she had just parked and has a couple of blocks to walk to get there. The event is basically a bunch of downtown galleries that have an open house and you walk between them.
Anyway, while I was waiting my brother calls me, I answer the phone because I was actually waiting on some important news from him. So I am chatting with my brother while waiting for her to show up, and 20 minutes later she still hasn't shown. I give her a call to find out if she got lost or something, and there is no answer. I wait a little while longer, then I call her again and leave a message telling her if I don't hear from her I assumed she changed her mind about meeting me, and if this is not the case to let me know what is up, and I was leaving if I didn't hear back from her. Of course no return call so I leave and that is that.
This is not just a normal being stood up, she actually took the time to go down there herself. I think I may have even seen her but I wasn't sure. If it was her she walked in front of the entrance(I was about 15 feet further outside the enterance talking to my brother), and then walked quickly away. If it was her she wasn't exactly all that to look at either, and she doesn't have any body pics on Match to know for sure, just some face photos.
Did she think it was rude I was talking on the phone when she saw me(and I didn't see her?), Or did she hate my voice on the phone so much when she first talked to me on the phone that she turned around and drove off?
I don't get what was so horrible that she would suddenly decide not to meet me at the last minute AFTER taking the effort to get herself ready, driving a half hour to get downtown and probably another 15 minutes to park and get there.
Anyway, while I was waiting my brother calls me, I answer the phone because I was actually waiting on some important news from him. So I am chatting with my brother while waiting for her to show up, and 20 minutes later she still hasn't shown. I give her a call to find out if she got lost or something, and there is no answer. I wait a little while longer, then I call her again and leave a message telling her if I don't hear from her I assumed she changed her mind about meeting me, and if this is not the case to let me know what is up, and I was leaving if I didn't hear back from her. Of course no return call so I leave and that is that.
This is not just a normal being stood up, she actually took the time to go down there herself. I think I may have even seen her but I wasn't sure. If it was her she walked in front of the entrance(I was about 15 feet further outside the enterance talking to my brother), and then walked quickly away. If it was her she wasn't exactly all that to look at either, and she doesn't have any body pics on Match to know for sure, just some face photos.
Did she think it was rude I was talking on the phone when she saw me(and I didn't see her?), Or did she hate my voice on the phone so much when she first talked to me on the phone that she turned around and drove off?
I don't get what was so horrible that she would suddenly decide not to meet me at the last minute AFTER taking the effort to get herself ready, driving a half hour to get downtown and probably another 15 minutes to park and get there.
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