"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bizarre convo with ex plate - Entitlement, bad mouthing and why NC is a charm!

Lotus Effect

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Hey guys.

I would just like to share this bizarre event that happened to me last night when I was on my way to a plate's house.

There I was, drinving in the crazy São Paulo traffic and BAM!, I got a new message (via whatsapp). Went to check it, it was from an ex plate that flaked on me twice and then I went NC on her ass something around 2 months ago, not wanting anything in return but NEXTING her!

Here is how it went:
OBS: Here is my profile pic in whatsapp for further comprehension It translates to: Did the Calculations. They all b*tches

CrazyAsianPlate: Machist Picture
Lotus Effect: hahaha! Hey Crazy Asian Plate, whats up. Long time no see. And on the other hand, I kinda like yours.
CAP: Hahahaha. Thanks. Too long isn't it!? Btw, my friend has one pic like yours, but instead it is him next to a black board full of calculations with the same result
Lotus: (I send her said picture and ask) This one?
CAP: Wow. Holy F*ck. There are some others, which are better than this, or worse. Anyway, how do you know Daniel
Lotus: Yeah, there are some other pictures because it seems that some calculations really have been made Haha :p*(joke) And he is friends with my sister. Or friend of a friend of her's. Somethink like that.
CAP: Urgh! You suck. He fvcks your sister. And sorry, he also fvcks your sister's friend. Probably.
Lotus: Wow man, seriously... Go treat yourself. You really need severe treatment. And please, do not ever speak to me again ok. I'll be glad. Bye
CAP: Uhh, according to his reviews on the Lulu app. Hahaha
Silence
CAP: Bye. But it is true, I'm sorry for the sincerity
Lotus: Ok. You can go now
CAP: I'm just kidding, you are way too nervous. Mimimi (Brazilian expression to say someone is playing the hurt card. Me she supposed by then)
Silence
CAP: Just do not crash your car, ok! ;)
Silence. 25 minutes later
CAP: You are really going to be mad about this????
Silence. 11 minutes later
CAP: Forgive me, please!!
Silence. 3 minutes later
CAP: He (Daniel) also got a sister.
Silence. 7 minutes later
CAP: A younger one!! =)

And there she decided it was pointless and gave up for the day!

Anyway, it just amazed me you know, such bad behaviour. This was beyond real for me. Freaking Surreal!!

She just said whatever the f*ck she wanted, told me I suck because of a silly little joke*, said some attrocious thing about my sister and expected me to be nice about it.

Her sense of entitlement must be above the heavens. And she is nothing but a plain HB6.5, 7 tops if well produced.
They just have it so easily that they believe that they can say whatever the f and guys will be "Oh ok, I got your joke, You are funny lol. Don't leave me"

It was really funny how her chain of reactions after aplying NC (again) went from extremelly unpolite, to owner of the truth, to the "I'm just kidding" tactic, to desperation of loss, followed by uter desperation.

It happened yesterday and I'm still amazed.
I just haven't deleted this convo from my mobile because I'm amusing myself showing this sh*tty behaviour to my friends.
Crazy b*tches! Hahaha :crackup:

Peace guys! :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheCWord

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I think we can all agree the real winner here is Daniel.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lotus Effect

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TheCWord said:
I think we can all agree the real winner here is Daniel.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Sadly, Daniel is not f*cking no one!

But he might get to f*ck this chick though. I could not care less, and she seems to be way to interested in his life! Hahaha

About geting back at her, I also could not care less. I was glad before when I nexted her, and I'm even more glad now that she's gone. And I hope after my call she is gone for good!

Disrespectful slvt
 
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