"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bitter, cynical, jaded, mysogynist, blah, blah

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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He got pissed off after the 5000th post about him becoming rich and being a big business guy and then retiring in a foreign country. I was a bit younger and touring Mexico and kept telling him to come down now before he got too old and his d1ck stopped working... we fought about that pretty much all the time, I think he just got tired of working his ass off and having nothing and losing out to a guy who was living it up on 3000 in savings. :D
 
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Basically this thread goes to show you that its okay for women to blame their problems on men but not okay the other way around, men are dealt with the card, burden of responsibility for everything, and I don't get why some people say I should not view it as a burden
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You know what really sucks. We have to do a group project in my interpersonal oral communication class. Every group gets a question. My groups question is, "How does gender affect interpersonal communication."

My group has 6 people, 5 of wich are female. fml. I'm going to get my point across, but little bits and pieces here and there, untill I can slowly guide them like retarded children, to understand how the world really works.

We will see how it goes.
 
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noobolgy said:
You know what really sucks. We have to do a group project in my interpersonal oral communication class. Every group gets a question. My groups question is, "How does gender affect interpersonal communication."

My group has 6 people, 5 of wich are female. fml. I'm going to get my point across, but little bits and pieces here and there, untill I can slowly guide them like retarded children, to understand how the world really works.

We will see how it goes.
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I'm sure each gender hates something about the opposite sex, one of the things I hate is how women have to be attracted to men that are leaders
 
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This is why I barely come around anymore, aside from backpacking the gulf coast this summer, starting a great new IT career and dating women that is.

This post is basically useless and offers nothing to anyone. Whats the point of bumping a useless 5 year old thread.
 
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HalfAddict said:
This is why I barely come around anymore, aside from backpacking the gulf coast this summer, starting a great new IT career and dating women that is.

This post is basically useless and offers nothing to anyone. Whats the point of bumping a useless 5 year old thread.
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I'm sure the advice here still is valid
 
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