"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bitter, cynical, jaded, mysogynist, blah, blah

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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He got pissed off after the 5000th post about him becoming rich and being a big business guy and then retiring in a foreign country. I was a bit younger and touring Mexico and kept telling him to come down now before he got too old and his d1ck stopped working... we fought about that pretty much all the time, I think he just got tired of working his ass off and having nothing and losing out to a guy who was living it up on 3000 in savings. :D
 

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Basically this thread goes to show you that its okay for women to blame their problems on men but not okay the other way around, men are dealt with the card, burden of responsibility for everything, and I don't get why some people say I should not view it as a burden
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You know what really sucks. We have to do a group project in my interpersonal oral communication class. Every group gets a question. My groups question is, "How does gender affect interpersonal communication."

My group has 6 people, 5 of wich are female. fml. I'm going to get my point across, but little bits and pieces here and there, untill I can slowly guide them like retarded children, to understand how the world really works.

We will see how it goes.
 

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noobolgy said:
You know what really sucks. We have to do a group project in my interpersonal oral communication class. Every group gets a question. My groups question is, "How does gender affect interpersonal communication."

My group has 6 people, 5 of wich are female. fml. I'm going to get my point across, but little bits and pieces here and there, untill I can slowly guide them like retarded children, to understand how the world really works.

We will see how it goes.
I'm sure each gender hates something about the opposite sex, one of the things I hate is how women have to be attracted to men that are leaders
 

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This is why I barely come around anymore, aside from backpacking the gulf coast this summer, starting a great new IT career and dating women that is.

This post is basically useless and offers nothing to anyone. Whats the point of bumping a useless 5 year old thread.
 

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HalfAddict said:
This is why I barely come around anymore, aside from backpacking the gulf coast this summer, starting a great new IT career and dating women that is.

This post is basically useless and offers nothing to anyone. Whats the point of bumping a useless 5 year old thread.
I'm sure the advice here still is valid
 
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