"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bit off more than I could chew.

arcilitei34

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Welll, I figured i'd try a differant approach at women this time. My new approach was to go and leave my options open and see how many women I could get, and then pick the best one. However.. I'm having a very hard time figuring out which girl I should pick out, anyone have any ideas that might help me decide which one I should pick out?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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did you already approach all of them or what?

if you did, just choose one to your liking
 

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No, not quite. I'm pretty much restraining myself so that I don't end up leading any of them on, but i'm almost absolutely sure both of them are interested in me. But the thing is, is they're both pretty much on equal grounds. I was hoping one was going to be worse so it would make things easier. Looks like i'm going to have to take them both out on a second date to be sure of things.
 

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Who says you have to pick?
 

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until its official between you and a girl...you're TECHNIQUELY single bro. so, as i like to say: Player, play on.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dont pick...just go out with the girl youre interested the most, wait a little while to see if she says something along about "stop seeing other people" if she does, then you know shes truly interested in you. of course, some girls wouldnt say something like that, soyou might have to bring it up, if shes enthusistic about the idea that will also mean shes really into you.
 

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my girl kinda accused me of being a player and jokingly said "haah after this you're probably going lto liek sandra's house[made-up person]" and i jsut said "haha yeah, u know me."
anyways, hwo do i try n findout if shes interested in being exclusive, ro jsut wants to fvck around?[without being a retard and straight up asking?]
 
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