"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bit of an unfamiliar problem, fairly urgent

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DJ Axton

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Right here's the deal I've had a lot of experience with girls but iv suddenly come up with a dilema.

I talked to this girl 2day and left her my number which is unusual cuz i usually get their number but shes like an hb9 and i had no other choice. Felt like a bit of an AFC, but not too bad. I didn't ask her out cuz she was really busy working and i hardly had a chance to talk 2 her.

She just SMSd me and said "hi ya its <name> tb". But it just occured 2 me than I've never talked 2 a girl over text b4. At least not one i like. So what should I do basically?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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djweses89

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talk to her how you normaly would if you have had good experiance wit women then u should know the kinds of things to say just say it through text thing wit text though you can say some things u couldnt get by wit on the phone or in person if you know wat i mean
 
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