"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bit of an unfamiliar problem, fairly urgent

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DJ Axton

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Right here's the deal I've had a lot of experience with girls but iv suddenly come up with a dilema.

I talked to this girl 2day and left her my number which is unusual cuz i usually get their number but shes like an hb9 and i had no other choice. Felt like a bit of an AFC, but not too bad. I didn't ask her out cuz she was really busy working and i hardly had a chance to talk 2 her.

She just SMSd me and said "hi ya its <name> tb". But it just occured 2 me than I've never talked 2 a girl over text b4. At least not one i like. So what should I do basically?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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djweses89

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talk to her how you normaly would if you have had good experiance wit women then u should know the kinds of things to say just say it through text thing wit text though you can say some things u couldnt get by wit on the phone or in person if you know wat i mean
 
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