Bit of advice needed

[R1ch4rd]

Now i used to be the really nice, cute lad who had friends but was just that with girls.

Alot has changed, my personality, espeically my CONFIDENCE has boomed out, i speak up alot more, can speak much easierly to people around me and make them laugh, I'm practising on being bit more charismatic.
I've noticed after stop feeling sorry for myself being the chubby kid in a shell I got alot done, now I dont dwell, put IMPROVE.

Now me as a person, well i LOVE travel, variety and change, I dont like routine, Im really naturally adventerous, and what I've read will serve me great, im also very good looking green eyes, light brown hair, i know you guys use your HB7 etc to rate women, if one for men I would be 8.5(and I havent got a six pack).
Now I seem to be much cooler, laid back, and one thing I've seen naturally some out of me is being quite alpha, im not the prime example, sometimes I can be a little bit girlish, but my attitudes to girls has changed from scary higher human beings, to humans beings, but with different features.

Im also improving on my social intelligence, before when people "vibe" I would question, question and question, I mean its natural for me, but I realised I save that for debates, arguments etc.

Now im posting here for a couple of things, I read that their two types of women magnets, Jerks/Bad boys, and Prince charmings, Now Im not going to be a complete bad boy, I stick up for mself, but stealing etc I think shows lack of intelligence, what I am not, so the only part of bad boy im implementing is the " I wanna take you on a short adventure and sleep with you" that kind of frame when talking to women, but how would I go about this, what kind of lines or things would you have to say, and what about body language I hear that it is a major part, but cant seem to find any info on how to portray a sexual " I wanna sleep with you" image.

Im in the UK, and going out tomorrow night, several girls, some new(there ones I go for) and drink.

All advice would be appreciated.


P.S. what does AFC, HB and some of the codes stand for haha

 

[jeffthechef]

afc means average frustrated chump
hb means hot babe

your perception of bad boy is the standard definition..not the dj one...
nto the bad boy in the sense of a thief, cheater, fighter

bad boy as in..doesn't succumb to the will of women and tend to their every whim..a man who doesn't become a lady's *****....it's termed bad boy because these guys are the opposite of afc's...or nice guys...bad boys can be chivalrous and gentleman like..think about james bond...he's a gentleman...but he also doesn't follow every girl he wants to get it on with...and run to open doors or plead to hold her books and beg to throw her trash away for her....he'll do nice things for her..and sometimes go out of his way if necessary..but his default disposition is a cool and laid back one..not needy or like a servant

as for developing charisma...in my experiences..genuine charisma is not learnable or something you can attain through work...the kids who are charismatic in my classes aren't usually the popular kids...popular kids are recepted well simply because others want to be popular..sadly...popular kids beocme popluar because epople want to do em or they have gone to the school for many years...the charismatic people are usually inbetween popular and unpopular...they can make others especially popular kids they don't know laugh without trying during a presentation...they have the ability to draw others to them without much effort..
BUT OF COURSE...you can develop a more common charisma...generally having everyone like you for who you are..that's great
you seem to have much confidence..good.

anymore ?'s.

 

[R1ch4rd]

afc means average frustrated chump
hb means hot babe

your perception of bad boy is the standard definition..not the dj one...
nto the bad boy in the sense of a thief, cheater, fighter

bad boy as in..doesn't succumb to the will of women and tend to their every whim..a man who doesn't become a lady's *****....it's termed bad boy because these guys are the opposite of afc's...or nice guys...bad boys can be chivalrous and gentleman like..think about james bond...he's a gentleman...but he also doesn't follow every girl he wants to get it on with...and run to open doors or plead to hold her books and beg to throw her trash away for her....he'll do nice things for her..and sometimes go out of his way if necessary..but his default disposition is a cool and laid back one..not needy or like a servant



as for developing charisma...in my experiences..genuine charisma is not learnable or something you can attain through work...the kids who are charismatic in my classes aren't usually the popular kids...popular kids are recepted well simply because others want to be popular..sadly...popular kids beocme popluar because epople want to do em or they have gone to the school for many years...the charismatic people are usually inbetween popular and unpopular...they can make others especially popular kids they don't know laugh without trying during a presentation...they have the ability to draw others to them without much effort..
BUT OF COURSE...you can develop a more common charisma...generally having everyone like you for who you are..that's great
you seem to have much confidence..good.

anymore ?'s.

So the dj way of bad Boy is a alpha man basically.

I always just a normal quiet kid, really fun etc, but only around friends, now IM MUCH less shy, I talk and put myself out more with girls in conversation, and before I would hesistate to say something teasing, bit mean(not in nasty way) etc.

I went out tonight, didnt get drink, meet few new girls, didnt really talk, but said hi looked and tried including them in convos what is great improvement from before, all this new me as simply come from confidence and coming out of my shell.

I can be very funny I definitely know that, Im cute, good looking etc, im quite a big guy in my class(not fat just tall and strong I played rugby).

Know I read alot stuff on the internet, I put quite a bit into action, but I read that you should "spike" conversations like you talk one thing then just say something completely different then maybe go back to what they said earlier.

I just want to get the girls, they all smile, laugh etc at every boy, but I want to be the one above that, got the looks, humour, adventure, now I just need to get the girls, and all the stuff I read, the main one Im not sure about is, what to say, how to stand, act to make the girls more attractive than normal.