"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bit of advice needed (sadly easy ****)

Phats

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I've been doing well with the stuff i've learnt here. Got a few dates, even fewer make out sessions and no head. But still, thats an improvement on a fat **** who couldnt make girls laugh.

Met a girl on a music thing, hit off with her, was in my element (btw if you want confidence go read eternal bachelor, and pooks mill and then try and look at these things as Gods.) and had a bit of flirty texts. I don't normally text as it leads to awkwardness when you run out of humour that can be taken out of the context of a character. And thats happened here. :whistle:

I mistyped one, leading it to say I was gay (me chatting up guys, rather than you.) and she joked back etc, I said stop trying to blackmail me into bed etc etc.

Her: You wish you had my sense of humour. in fact, you pretty much want to be me :yes: . xxx

ok....well i could've replyed but I was watching Gladiator and **** that film is good.

THEN

Her: Your silence means that I have won that argument and also sets a percedent for any we may have in the future. thankyou and goodnight.x

That was just before i turned my lights out. She's seemingly been waiting for a reply :rockon: .

BUT. I have no ****ing idea what to say. I don't want to abandon this prospect as shes cute talented and some of her earlier texts made me laugh out loud in lessons.

Gimme a quick witty reply preferably setting me up for more humour.

And no 'lol man intellectual masturbation' crap please, and replys only from people who know themselves already.

Cheers
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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War Against Betaism

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You should have said <i>something</i>. She got the idea that she's superior to you in arguing now because you didn't reply to her right away. Don't text back. Next time you see her, don't even mention it. If she brings it up, say "Oh yeah, I was watching Gladiator," which is the truth, but act blatantly obvious like you're lying. And quickly try to change the subject and never bring it up again.
 

SinJester

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"You wish" "you keep thinking thst" whatever man. It's just a bit of fun.
 
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