"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've met a girl who I'd like to get to know better. I have no problems with asking her out. Problem is that I'm completely broke at the moment and my room-mate has gone away meaning I need to be home a lot to look after/feed his bloody pets. All of this and my job means I'm going to be swamped for the next few weeks.

Would it be wise to ask her round my place on a first date? Somehow I don't think playing the xbox will go down well and watching a DVD seems pretty boring/lame to me.

Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well you could tell her that you have no money and then ask her to go for a walk at a park or something
 
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redbeard said:
I've met a girl who I'd like to get to know better. I have no problems with asking her out. Problem is that I'm completely broke at the moment and my room-mate has gone away meaning I need to be home a lot to look after/feed his bloody pets. All of this and my job means I'm going to be swamped for the next few weeks.

Would it be wise to ask her round my place on a first date? Somehow I don't think playing the xbox will go down well and watching a DVD seems pretty boring/lame to me.

Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.
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Tell her you are super busy and don't feel like going out, and then invite her over for wine.
 
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