"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I saw a similar thread to this, but wanted to open this one with a question.

A few times in my life, i've met a bisexual girl that believes in open relationships. Girls like this are usually highly sexual and fun to be with. I had a short term relationship with one.

In any event I was chatting with on that I met online recently and she has had some wild sexual experiences. What is interesting is that she can chat about it in a matter fact type of way. One really interest thing that she said recently is that had a 3 way with 2 other girls

In any event, how would you game a girl like this in a Day 2 situation? Obviously alot of it has to be vibing and all but also being realistic and not expecting sex immediately should be advised.

What would your gameplan be with her conversation wise? It is almost intimidating to know ahead of time that a girl is this experienced. Bouncing her to a few venues could be alot of fun.

Ricky
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Can't believe there aren't more people with experiences like this. Or maybe I should believe it.

Anyways, ended up taking her back to the apartment and making out. That's about all I wanted. She put up some last minute resistance which was fine since I was running out of time before my LTR came home.
 

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I would treat her exactly the same as all other women. I would forget about all the bisexual stuff. To her its old hat and if you always bring it up, then you come across like every other guy that she tells, always brings it up, always want it etc...

Be different, be unique, just show her a good time and if she wants she'll bring in one of her female friends. Whenever I've had 3somes, its never been planned out, it was in the spur of the moment or I took charge and made it happen.
 

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DonGorgon said:
The type of woman you speak of is called a "ho"... there are many all around and yes they are fun. BUt they are never yours. You borrow then or rent them.
To be technically correct, no woman is EVER 'yours' except by her own choice. Which she will reconsider consistently throughout her lifetime, and change her status as necessary.


True love exists when each party feels that they long for the other whenever they are apart. To 'long for someone' is to BELONG.

In other words, you may BELIEVE a girl is 'yours', but she is always HERS, in reality.

Only SHE may determine that she belongs to you, just as ONLY YOU may determine that you belong to her.

If you are with the ideal girl, one to whom you belong, and where she feels herself belonging to you, then you're set!

Johnny Soporno
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DonGorgon said:
The type of woman you speak of is called a "ho"... there are many all around and yes they are fun. BUt they are never yours. You borrow then or rent them.
Are you one of Last Man Standing's Disciples?
 

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Johnny, love to read your posts.

Do you feel that any girl you've banged in the past you could bang again without difficulty? Thats generally my feeling. Even the ones that get married would probably stray under the right circumstances to have a taste of the past.
 

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DonGorgon said:
^^^well said... Hence the 90% divorce rate.
It's well-established, both in the US and abroad, the NUMBER ONE LEADING CAUSE of divorce is marriage.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ricky said:
Johnny, love to read your posts.

Do you feel that any girl you've banged in the past you could bang again without difficulty? Thats generally my feeling. Even the ones that get married would probably stray under the right circumstances to have a taste of the past.
Well, I've been sexually active for a very long time, so I can't speak about those ones I've not been with since prior than a few years ago with certainty, but I have a very high degree of confidence that virtually everyone I've been to bed with in the last few years would gladly return to bed with me.

I do leave a fairly indelible memory in most people's minds, particularly the girls.

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Ricky said:
I saw a similar thread to this, but wanted to open this one with a question.

A few times in my life, i've met a bisexual girl that believes in open relationships. Girls like this are usually highly sexual and fun to be with. I had a short term relationship with one.

In any event I was chatting with on that I met online recently and she has had some wild sexual experiences. What is interesting is that she can chat about it in a matter fact type of way. One really interest thing that she said recently is that had a 3 way with 2 other girls

In any event, how would you game a girl like this in a Day 2 situation? Obviously alot of it has to be vibing and all but also being realistic and not expecting sex immediately should be advised.

What would your gameplan be with her conversation wise? It is almost intimidating to know ahead of time that a girl is this experienced. Bouncing her to a few venues could be alot of fun.

Ricky
You have to make sure you are, or come across as the very open minded people they consider themselves to be or are. Most guys, specially here, fantasize about getting their bi chick to help them with threesomes, etc. yet they have this vibe about them that screams "I am judgemental, and would not ever consider you a quality person" when they encounter homosexual/bisexual people.

Be confortable and totally ok with it. Have a take it or leave it attitude of not putting too much importance on the outcome. They are used to horny guys who have their own agenda as to why they want to date them. They smell it a mile away, and that won't help your chances to have a good time. They are like all women, first they have to open up/give themselves to you mentally/emotionally, then they'll open their garden to you.
 

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My advice is... DON'T get in a serious relationship with a bi-sexual girl. I know quite a few guys who have been in LTR's with a bi-sexual girl. You might think; "Hey, I get to have three ways with my girlfriend and its cool!" Wrong... sh!t will go down hill, she might start to like girls more than guys, and from what I have seen. It never works out....
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
My advice is... DON'T get in a serious relationship with a bi-sexual girl. I know quite a few guys who have been in LTR's with a bi-sexual girl. You might think; "Hey, I get to have three ways with my girlfriend and its cool!" Wrong... sh!t will go down hill, she might start to like girls more than guys, and from what I have seen. It never works out....
Personally I ONLY date bisexual girls. Frankly, I believe ALL women are bi, at least from the waist-up!

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Ricky said:
In any event, how would you game a girl like this in a Day 2 situation?
Slick Rick - treat her like the homo hor that she is!! Pimp her and then throw her away - as you are suppose to do with garbage!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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