"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FutureSpartan

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Ok so how do I manage this? She's cute and freaky and likes hot women. She's in her early 30s but looks great for her age.
We're both involved with eachother but she's totally down for threesomes or more.

How do we work the clubs with this arrangement? What kind of dynamic should we setup to draw in the women willing to experiment? How do we transition back to my place? Any potential problems or obstacles with this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bible_Belt

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Just be chill about the whole thing and act like it is no big deal. Getting two women is a lot like getting one woman. If it is no big deal, then you are not nervous and thus at your best. Don't be jealous if she goes off and makes out with some other chick. You'd be surprised how many guys can't handle that. Make the whole thing about the girls having fun and a good time for everybody.
 

Mistic

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How does someone who got to be in ur situation in the first place, not know how to proceed from here. You landed a bi wing girl, who you are already nailing, and you are confused about how to help her indulge her desires.

Take her to a club, and send her out to bring home the bacon. Or try what I said in my post I just made. Open women, and tell them what your girl wants to do.
 

DanelMadr

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Open the "target" and let her IL grow, then let your friend come in and introduce them.
Then leave and left your friend befriend the girl.
Return and suggest for you three to go to your place.

Warning:

Not all girls are into this. And anti-slvt defense is quite strong. A girl might be OK with being seen making out with a guy but not so OK being seen making out with a girl. So don't let your friend scare the girl away.

Basically you have to make her wet first and then your friend should join. She should concentrate on you first and then casually turn her attention on the target.

Good luck
 

DonGorgon

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let your girl to most of the work cause women are more open to other women then they are to men.. If your woman has a dominant personality other hos will do what eve she tells them to..

I have done this before with a bi girl and a freak ho from our school..

Last year I had a failed situation cause my ho at the time brought me her friend bet her friend was not submissive and infact had a bad attitude so i hatted her immediately..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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