"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Birthday
- Thread starter Muphaser
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
shydude
Master Don Juan
shydude
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
shydude
Master Don Juan
life_of_a_legend
Don Juan
After your first date, go back to the place you took your girl to and buy something that would make her reminisce of the experience she had with you.
For example: I took my ex-girlfriend to a Place called "Myers" and we sat down on a sofa and I put my arms around her and she put her head on my shoulders while watching people buy stuff. Then we looked at a couple buying a big fluffy stuffed chicken for their young daughter. My ex told me how much she hates Stuffed toys. (She's weird like that) Then I got the stuffed chicken and I taunted my ex with it. She got mad so I stopped and just gave her a kiss on the cheek. 2 Months later it was her b-day and surprise surprise....I got her the chicken. When she opened it she laughed really hard and punched my arm then gave me one of the best kisses I've ever had!
But here's another way:
During one of your conversations just ask her "So what make's your world go round besides me?" then she'll tell you all of her favourite things etc, remember what she says and then when it come's to her b-day just buy it.
For example:
I had a conversation with a girl that I was pursuing and i ask her the question above then she replied "Iron Chef....I love Iron Chef" just judging by the look in her eyes she absoulutely loves Iron Chef so I got her an Iron Chef DVD for her b-day.
See brother it's that simple.