"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Birthday?

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Girl I have class with at school has a birthday coming up (I know cause she added me on myspace and it says so) I just met her so I dont really want to leave her a msg on myspace anyone got any ideas? I dont want to ask to take her out either because like I said before we talk in class every now and then but dont know each other for **** really...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would find one of those really stupid, funny pictures you find on the Internet with the words Happy Birthday on it. Something like a monkey dressed up in a tux (bad example but you know what I'm saying).

Then send her an email on myspace hotlinking the picture. Under the picture put 'don't say i never got you anything for your birthday', nothing more.

Don't say 'happy birthday foxy', or send her pictures of roses, blah, blah, blah... That's just boring.

You can take it a step further by sending the email a day after her birthday, maybe even two days.
 
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You don't want to ask her out? so what is it you want from us?

If you're not interested then don't do or say anything. She's got enough friends who'll wish her happy b-day. Is this so complicated?

If you ARE interested, then why in the hell haven't you grabbed her number or asked her out?

Your whole post doesn't really make a whole lot of sense.

Personally, I wouldn't say anything at all, unless she mentions it's her b-day. then just say "happy b-day" and that's the end of it.

This is not a big deal.
 
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