Alright, so I got invited to my old oneitis' birthday party. Her and I are still good friends, but i dont know if i should go. We go to different schools now (rezoning) and i just don't know what to do. I don't want her to think of me as her best "guy-friend" anymore, and at the same time I don't know how to approach this. Another curve in the situation is this guy that likes her, is a real d-bag, and i've almost kicked his a** before. So if i do decide to game her what approach should i take? And how do i deal with this other guy? I'm not actually looking for a relationship with her, just maybe a hookup
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Birthday Party
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Just play it cool. You probably wont' get much with her, so don't even worry about it. C&F, lots of kino, and MAKE SURE SHE SEES YOU HAVING FUN WITH OTHER PEOPLE!!! Don't stick around with her the whole time.
Game HER? Are you out of your mind? Go for it but don't spend your time on her and game all of the others chicks around.
So you solve all of your problems:
-You prove that you are over it with her.
-You do not get that guy in your way.
-You do not have to spend money for a gift!
And be ready to leave if this party gets boring.
So you solve all of your problems:
-You prove that you are over it with her.
-You do not get that guy in your way.
-You do not have to spend money for a gift!
And be ready to leave if this party gets boring.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Alright thanks guys. BTW what exactly does c&f mean? I was just asking because when i was interested with her (freshman year) she wasn't interested in me. Now, all the sudden she is showing interest and im confused on how to approach this.
marines_hooorah
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kino and make sure u flirt with all the girls to make her jealous