Alright, so I got invited to my old oneitis' birthday party. Her and I are still good friends, but i dont know if i should go. We go to different schools now (rezoning) and i just don't know what to do. I don't want her to think of me as her best "guy-friend" anymore, and at the same time I don't know how to approach this. Another curve in the situation is this guy that likes her, is a real d-bag, and i've almost kicked his a** before. So if i do decide to game her what approach should i take? And how do i deal with this other guy? I'm not actually looking for a relationship with her, just maybe a hookup
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Birthday Party
- Thread starter Jokerlsk
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Just play it cool. You probably wont' get much with her, so don't even worry about it. C&F, lots of kino, and MAKE SURE SHE SEES YOU HAVING FUN WITH OTHER PEOPLE!!! Don't stick around with her the whole time.
Game HER? Are you out of your mind? Go for it but don't spend your time on her and game all of the others chicks around.
So you solve all of your problems:
-You prove that you are over it with her.
-You do not get that guy in your way.
-You do not have to spend money for a gift!
And be ready to leave if this party gets boring.
So you solve all of your problems:
-You prove that you are over it with her.
-You do not get that guy in your way.
-You do not have to spend money for a gift!
And be ready to leave if this party gets boring.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Alright thanks guys. BTW what exactly does c&f mean? I was just asking because when i was interested with her (freshman year) she wasn't interested in me. Now, all the sudden she is showing interest and im confused on how to approach this.
marines_hooorah
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kino and make sure u flirt with all the girls to make her jealous