My birthday is Saturday. There is a girl who I am sort of dating...we go out once in a while, we always have a good time, i am very C+F with her, but it hasn't gotten physical yet. We are kinda friends, but I do not think I am in her friendzone yet. Anyway she wants to take me out one day next week for my birthday and I was wondering if I should tell her that she owes me a birthday kiss. I would do it in a C+F way, do you guys think this would work?
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Birthday Kiss?
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Personally I think it's lame. Even though you want to do it in a c/f way, you should just go for a kiss, whether it's your birthday or not. Why don't you run a kiss test on her instead?
Lay down your ground work, then whenever you're ready to perform the kiss test make eye contact and hold it. Quickly glance down at her lips than back up at her eyes and continue holding. Then lean in somehow. Either over to her ear to whisper something to her, reach in and grab her hair as if you're pulling something out, whatever. Just move in and see how she reacts. If she seems comfortable, then you can go in for the kiss without worrying about if she wants to or not.
Ofcourse you should be reading her all night to know where her interest level is and you should have a pretty good idea on how she'll react to the kiss test.
But I personally think asking for it just for the sake of getting a kiss is lame.
Cgraz
Lay down your ground work, then whenever you're ready to perform the kiss test make eye contact and hold it. Quickly glance down at her lips than back up at her eyes and continue holding. Then lean in somehow. Either over to her ear to whisper something to her, reach in and grab her hair as if you're pulling something out, whatever. Just move in and see how she reacts. If she seems comfortable, then you can go in for the kiss without worrying about if she wants to or not.
Ofcourse you should be reading her all night to know where her interest level is and you should have a pretty good idea on how she'll react to the kiss test.
But I personally think asking for it just for the sake of getting a kiss is lame.
Cgraz
Thanks guys. I needed that, I dont know what I was thinkin' last night when I posted that, I really knew that I should just go for it without saying anything. Thanks for keeping me on track. And I'm sort of dating her, meaning that we go out occaisionally, not very often, and there hasnt been anything physical yet (which is a mistake on my part I know). We are both seeing other people regularly so it's all good.
Satan Psycho
Don Juan
Seeing her multiple times without getting intimate could be a big problem. I hope you've used a lot of Kino, and I mean a LOT. Use the kiss test if you like and try to maintain the Frame that you have been unsure if you wanted to be romantically involved with her.
BTW, why have you not made a move yet? Were you just chicken shyt?
BTW, why have you not made a move yet? Were you just chicken shyt?
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Thanks Pshycho. I know that what you said is very true, but I actually was unsure about weather I wanted to be romantically involved with her. That is why I have not made a move yet. I was waiting for some stuff to get cleared up, its complicated, but as time passes I am becoming more and more positive that I would really like something to come out of this beyond friendship if possible. It is a borderline friendzone situation now, although I dont think I am actually IN the friendzone yet, and if I am, I think I can get out of it without too much trouble.
Psycho`Sexual
Don Juan
The default answer...
Whenever you have a question of "Should I TALK or should I DO."
The answer is almost ALWAYS to take action.
Whenever you have a question of "Should I TALK or should I DO."
The answer is almost ALWAYS to take action.