I know the usual response to birthday gifts, when not seeing someone for that long is no, but what about this idea, been seeing the girl about 2months:
Meeting her tommorow at the pub gonna get her something from an inside joke which is basically less than a 1$ worth of stuff which will get a laugh. Also gonna get her something proper but going to tell her that she isn't getting it on her birthday and has to guess what the gift is, the catch is that she only gets 1 guess each time we see each other, which is only about 1-2 times a week.
I see this as both a hook and an open loop (can drag it on weeks or months) which should increase interest level due to it being:
1) Different.
2) Keeping her thinking about what it could be and thus me.
3) She cant think your buying her because the present could turn out to be anything.
Also the benefits to this would be:
1) You don't actually have to buy anything if you don't want too
or
2) If you do buy something and everything goes wrong you can always give the present to a relative i.e. sister or mother, or a longtime female friend.
Any feedback on the above and whether people would consider it supplicating etc.. would be appreciated.
Meeting her tommorow at the pub gonna get her something from an inside joke which is basically less than a 1$ worth of stuff which will get a laugh. Also gonna get her something proper but going to tell her that she isn't getting it on her birthday and has to guess what the gift is, the catch is that she only gets 1 guess each time we see each other, which is only about 1-2 times a week.
I see this as both a hook and an open loop (can drag it on weeks or months) which should increase interest level due to it being:
1) Different.
2) Keeping her thinking about what it could be and thus me.
3) She cant think your buying her because the present could turn out to be anything.
Also the benefits to this would be:
1) You don't actually have to buy anything if you don't want too
or
2) If you do buy something and everything goes wrong you can always give the present to a relative i.e. sister or mother, or a longtime female friend.
Any feedback on the above and whether people would consider it supplicating etc.. would be appreciated.
