"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Birthday Gifts

Weeuweed

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So..
what are u djs give your girls during THEIR B-Day??
What makes a gift a good present??
Birthday comes yearly... so post some nice idea/gift :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Runna13=)

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Time and time again: give her something from the heart, genuine, thoughtful, and creative, something that took time to think up. One creative idea that I thought up was giving her a "newspaper" from the day of her birth. Usually I date intelligent girls, so i dont think my ideas would work on materialistic girls. If you have one of those girls, get her a burberry or coach purse. Works like a charm all the time. You'll be out a couple hundred though.
 

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I generally am the type to develop alot of inside jokes and things like that with my friends, as well as with girls that I am seeing. So usually for b-day's, I either buy or make gifts or do something that are related to the inside jokes. This will show your creativeness, it will show that you took time and effort into thinking about her, and it will ensure that she will think about you when she sees it, and that it is unlikely that she will ever get another gift like it.
 

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I am not one to buy gifts, it just brings back horrible memories of my AFC days. The only time i would buy a girl a gift is if i have been in an exsclusive relationship with her for AT LEAST 2 months, it's good to give yourself rules such as this so you don't slip back to your AFC habits. I'll admit, i did buy one of my **** buddys a b'day present, but it was a can of dog food. :D
 

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The only time I would buy a girl a gift is if we had been seriously dating for a while or I got invited to a bday party.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ShizamDaMan

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I was at one of my friend's birthday parties yesterday. She told everyone not to get her anything, so I made her a mixed CD with some bands she liked. She loved it and it cost me zero dollars (sister paid for the CD-Rs).

It's the thought that counts, unless you're Bill Gates. In which case you need to purchase an expensive car or mansion for her :p
 

Weeuweed

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c'mon djs, don't u give ur gf any gifts ?? that's cruel :D
Ever?
 

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The no gift stuff is complete horse****.

Giving a birthday gift is not the same as sending a girl flowers everyday or something ***** like that.

It's a birthday gift, and no girl will think you're less of a man if you get her a birthday present.
 

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Gift for your gf when you're in a good, solid, productive relationship = ok

Gift for some female friend = waste of money. Jus go buy yourself a bag of hershey's kiss, take one out, give it to her and eat the rest.
 

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ok, heres my thoughts on gifts. If you all are first dating, please dont waste your money on her. If you are gonna get her gifts, win her somethin or get her something thoughtful that doesnt cost much. I think birthday presents are fine too if you are just friends or dating. i mean, come on , its a freakin birthday. But ya, just dont spend much on her until you've been datin a while
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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